When a Parent Abandons an Adult Child
Focus on the Family Parenting Podcast
Focus on the Family
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🗓️ 19 February 2026
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
In some cases, adult kids are the ones who've been wronged by their parents. When that happens, how do you trust God to restore the relationship? Jim Daly and Dr. Gary Chapman give the adult child some practical guidelines for reaching out to an estranged parent. Then, Danny and John will encourage you that it's not too late for a parent-child relationship to be mended.
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| 0:32.3 | A lot of times here in this podcast, we're addressing issues that parents face with their kids, |
| 0:37.2 | but what about times when, |
| 0:38.9 | sorry, mom or dad, you are the issue. You've caused the problem. And now you're wondering, what am I going to do? |
| 0:44.8 | I'm John Fuller, along with Dr. Danny Werta, who leads our parenting team. And Danny, I'm thinking |
| 0:50.6 | specifically of instances where I know parents have kind of cut off the relationship. |
| 0:55.3 | It's too toxic or I can't handle that child. |
| 0:58.4 | It's, they're just whatever it is. |
| 1:00.2 | And they've said, I don't want to see you anymore. |
| 1:03.3 | How in the world can they repair that relationship? |
| 1:06.5 | No, we've even had phone calls on our counseling line where the parents have said, |
| 1:09.7 | I'm not going to go to my son or daughter's wedding because it's a biracial wedding. So I'm not going to talk to them. |
| 1:16.4 | They're not going to have an inheritance. I'm stepping out of this with them. And there's a lot of anger |
| 1:21.8 | because of a belief that they've held strongly too. And there are different topics, like you said, that cause a parent to say, |
| 1:30.0 | I'm just not going to be engaged with my adult child, and there's deep-seated conflict there. |
| 1:35.5 | It's interesting. The percentage, when you look at the statistics around this estrangement |
| 1:40.3 | between parent-child, 7% of adult children are estranged towards their mom. |
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