So y'all, today we're talking about a narcissist favorite card to play. The grief card. Oh, boy, oh boy. Well, a narcissist absolutely use grief and sympathy against you. Would they use grief and sympathy to their advantage? That's what we're talking about today y'all. If you're

new here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a diagnosed narcissist and welcome to another

episode of the Narcissus Code. When you have a pixel 10, you may get asked a few questions.

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Google Pixel 10. Welcome back. Y'all. Welcome back. Welcome back. Y'all. Grief and sympathy are

weapons that narcissistic people will absolutely use against you.

And I'm just keeping it real.

Like if you are going through an episode, like if you lose someone in your life, or if they lose someone in their life or it's not even someone you can lose

a pet you could lose a job grief whatever brings grief into your life a friendship

breakup a friend is moving away your parents are moving away parents are retiring

and moving to Bermuda or whatever it's a sip kombucha and whatever y'all that's what

I'm talking about though y'all this what I'm hype I'm standing up life is good I'm so grateful

but yes y'all they will absolutely use the things that they are going through or the things

that you are going through to play on your heart they

just it happens it happens to so many people like let's just take this for an example

right here out I did a one-on-one with a guy a little while ago right and he was talking about

how he found his wife cheating on the right he like, I'm tired of her cheating on me, Lee, this is it, I'm over and done with. I'm finally going to get the strength to break up with her or to divorce her or whatever to be separated. We have a couple of kids. He made the choice to go ahead and do it. He found out she was cheating on her. He got separated. separate the day he the day he was moving out. He had told his wife and everything. He the day he was moving out. He had a sign apartment leasing everything. Had a two three had a two or three bedroom apartment for the kids. Um, he was ready to go. Somebody his family passed away. And he was just like he didn't have nobody else to turn to he had the last person

that he had the last connection that he had the last family member alive that he had passed away

so he had no one else to turn to right so guess what he did reached out to his ex who was ex

and reached out to him his soon to be ex out reach out to him and say if you need something

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