Emotional spending isn’t a discipline problem — it’s a disconnection signal. In this episode, we’re rewriting the narrative around impulse purchases, Target runs, late-night checkouts, and “I deserve this” moments. Because you’re not bad with money — you’re trying to soothe stress, reward exhaustion, feel connected, or become a future version of yourself. And a budget alone can’t fix that. We break down the six most common emotional spending patterns, why self-control gets depleted when you’re burned out or lonely, and a simple pause practice that helps you identify what you actually need before you buy. This isn’t about never spending again. Joy is allowed. It’s about making sure your money is supporting your life instead of numbing it. Your homework this week: notice the urge, name the feeling, and get curious — no shame required. If you’re ready for personalized, judgment-free financial guidance, learn more about working with Shari. Shari Rash is the founder of GWA Wealth and the Host of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money. GWA Wealth is a virtual advisory firm helping women make confident, values-aligned decisions with their money. Visit GWA Wealth to explore your next step. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here.  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices