What You Learned From Being Rejected
The Brian Lehrer Show
WNYC
4.6 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 21 March 2025
⏱️ 12 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Brian Lera on WNYC. |
| 0:10.1 | And to close out the show today with something completely different, although maybe not, |
| 0:14.2 | if you just applied to college, it's calls on the upside of rejection. |
| 0:19.8 | The upside of rejection. Why? Well, it's because of a recent |
| 0:24.5 | article in Vox titled, You Should Be Setting Rejection Goals by Jillian Anthony. She believes |
| 0:32.1 | that although we all have an ingrained fear of rejection, quote, getting your dreams |
| 0:36.3 | crushed can be surprisingly good for you. |
| 0:39.0 | So who has a story about rejection, the upside of rejection? What positive role has rejection played |
| 0:48.3 | in your life? 212-433 WNYC, 212, 433-9692. |
| 0:56.1 | Who has an upside of rejection story? |
| 0:59.7 | Last year, this Voxwriter, Jillian Anthony, actually set out to be rejected as much as she could. |
| 1:07.6 | What? |
| 1:08.2 | She and 15 other people set out to get rejected as many times as possible through the |
| 1:13.5 | month of November, cheekily titling the project, No November. The idea was that you need to open |
| 1:20.3 | yourself to a lot of noes in order to get a few big yeses. So in her case, as a journalist, |
| 1:26.8 | she focused on getting knows when pitching |
| 1:28.7 | articles for her work. She found that, quote, shifting attention to rejection rather than success |
| 1:35.5 | made her work feel so much easier, rather than being a perfectionist, suddenly getting a no |
| 1:42.5 | was worth celebrating. |
| 1:44.6 | Is this having any resonance with you, listeners? |
| 1:47.5 | Have you ever actually set out to be rejected? |
| 1:50.4 | Maybe you won't get any calls like that, |
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