What would your "deathbed self" tell you today? | Lauren Deeley
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🗓️ 10 March 2026
⏱️ 8 minutes
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What if the key to making better decisions today is getting to know the person you'll become tomorrow? Drawing on psychological research and real-life stories, private wealth advisor Lauren Deeley explores how building a meaningful connection with your "deathbed self" can bring more clarity, joy and intention to the life you're building right now.
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to TED Talks Daily, where we bring you new ideas to spark your curiosity every day. |
| 0:09.1 | I'm your host, Elise Hugh. |
| 0:10.9 | Before you make your next big decision, imagine yourself at the end of your life. |
| 0:15.5 | Are you proud of how you lived? |
| 0:17.2 | I was 22 years old, and I had this insane opportunity to take all my meager savings and buy a hostel in San Jose Costa Rica. |
| 0:25.6 | Now, there are about a thousand what-ifs and what can go wrongs with a decision like this. |
| 0:29.1 | So with the sellers on the phone, like an actual corded phone, I sat on a bed, closed my eyes, and I asked myself, what would my future self think? |
| 0:39.0 | That's private wealth advisor Lauren Dealey. In today's talk, she shares why connecting |
| 0:43.5 | with your future self can transform the way you approach the choices you make about your |
| 0:48.0 | money and career. It can bring more clarity, joy, and intention to the life you're building. |
| 0:53.7 | Now, I believe the purpose of life is to be able to get to the end and look back and say, |
| 0:59.2 | damn, I live that one. |
| 1:02.0 | This talk is made in partnership with Northwestern Mutual. |
| 1:04.9 | It's coming up right after a short break. |
| 1:15.5 | And now our TED Talk of the Day. |
| 1:20.2 | I want you to imagine yourself on your deathbed. |
| 1:23.5 | But you're smiling. |
| 1:35.8 | Your soul is exhausted and full. What do you look like? What are you wearing? Who's with you? Where are you? |
| 1:45.4 | Everything in my life that I'm most proud of, I can attribute to conversations that I've had with someone very important to me. |
| 1:48.9 | Her name is Deathbed Dealey. |
| 1:56.6 | Let me explain. I have this deep, crystal clear relationship with my future Deathbed self. |
| 2:05.0 | She has deep smile lines from a lifetime spent laughing, leathery skin from spending so much time outside, long gray hair, |
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