What Women Really Want: Sexual Fantasies, Seduction, and Relationships | Sadia Khan PT 2

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🗓️ 15 November 2024

⏱️ 95 minutes

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In today's episode of Impact Theory, host Tom Bilyeu delves deep into the intricate world of modern relationships, societal expectations, and personal growth with guest Sadia Khan. Together, they explore the complexities of attraction and success, shedding light on how physical allure and ambition shape romantic dynamics. Sadia shares her preferences for driven, accomplished men, linking laziness to missed opportunities, while Tom reflects on his transformative journey motivated by his commitment to his wife, Lisa. Khan's perspective on pay disparities and societal norms, particularly in places like Dubai versus the UK, provides a thought-provoking angle on cultural and economic biases. The conversation takes a candid turn as they discuss the motivational power of admiration, the impact of materialism on relationships, and the unrealistic expectations fueled by social media. This episode also navigates the often contentious waters of sexual dynamics, examining the role of mutual attraction, the evolving landscape of hypergamy, and the pitfalls of transactional relationships. Both speakers emphasize the importance of self-improvement, setting boundaries, and finding partners who respect and value genuine connections over superficial traits. SHOWNOTES Intimacy vs. delusion in age-gap relationships. Avoid pornography; it impacts erectile dysfunction negatively. Submit to someone who sees and supports you. Emotional safety, lifelong desire, shared investment. Men confuse desire for intimacy with sex. Money devalues, causing higher prices and inequality. Women perceive each other as threats, not men. Grateful but cautious due to potential offense. Truth isn't offended by reality; delusion is. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Range Rover: Explore the Range Rover Sport at https://landroverUSA.com Miro: Bring your teams to Miro’s revolutionary Innovation Workspace and be faster from idea to outcome at https://miro.com. Found Banking: Stop getting lost in countless finance apps and try Found for free at https://found.com/impact. Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning for free at https://netsuite.com/theory Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/impact Factor: Get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month while your subscription is active at https://factormeals.com/impacttheory50 with code impacttheory50. What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER SCALING a business: see if you qualify here. Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. Join me live on my Twitch stream. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I'm Tom Bill-you and this is Impact Theory.
0:02.5	Let's dive right back in to Part 2 with Sadia Khan.
0:07.0	The reality is women were designed.
0:10.0	One of the reasons why women can move on quickly from heartbreak and relationships and go from one man to another is in evolutionary times,
0:17.0	if they lost their partner to war or to predators or whatever it is, they'd have to find another one.
0:21.8	Even if they shared him with another bunch of women, they would have to do that, otherwise they die.
0:26.0	So we have these instincts in us that we can't always explain.
0:29.5	Now, a woman's instinct is always to be somewhat looked after.
0:33.3	It doesn't even have to be financial, but just knowing that a man looks after,
0:36.7	that could mean, did you get home safe, was work okay, did you get on your flight okay, just checking
0:42.1	in. Women really value that, yeah, that checking in, whether it's financial investment or
0:46.9	emotional investment, they need it in order to feel safe. For a man, the nurturing is really
0:52.3	important for him. That nurture is their way of understanding you appreciate them.
0:57.0	When you nurture them, they take it to me and you love and appreciate me.
1:00.0	When you don't nurture them, they take it to mean that I'm an ATM here and no one cares about me.
1:05.0	So they get drastic with their responses.
1:08.0	So I would say that the emotional and financial investment is what women
1:11.9	generally like to look for and the appreciation and nurtures what men tend to look for.
1:17.7	Okay, so a lot of women are having a seizure over that right now. Let me ask, should a woman
1:23.2	submit to a man's leadership? I think that when you meet a man who is so, is such a safe bet and so secure, submission is a natural consequence. Now, if you refuse to do that because you don't see, like, it just goes against everything, the narrative you've been taught, you're depriving yourself of a really beautiful relationship i'm not saying
1:44.1	submit to every man but a good man who cares about your well-being you'd be a fool not to submit to
1:49.5	him you'd be a fool to argue with him uh you'd be missing out on a great connection simply because
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