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Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self Love Podcast for Women

What Women Misunderstand About Anxiety, Mental Health, and the Mind-Body Connection with Dr. Ellen Vora, MD

Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self Love Podcast for Women

Mary Jelkovsky

Body-image, Education, Relationships, Self Compassion, Society & Culture, Self Love For Women, Self Love, Self-improvement, Advice For Women, Women's Health, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Love Yourself, Self Worth, Self-love, Body Image

4.9745 Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2026

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Many women talk about anxiety as if it’s a personality trait, but Dr. Ellen Vora offers a different lens: anxiety could be a mind-body signal that something in your mental health ecosystem needs support. In this conversation, we unpack what women misunderstand about anxiety, why mental health is deeply physical, and how to stop seeing anxiety as a personal flaw.

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0:00.0

I don't think anxiety is a genetic chemical inevitability. I don't think it's a fixed trait about us.

0:06.9

I think certainly we have our genetic predispositions and how we're wired, but I really see anxiety,

0:12.3

as you pointed out, one of two categories. It's either what I call false anxiety or true anxiety.

0:19.7

False anxiety, which can be such a, it feels so invalidating,

0:23.7

and I don't mean it that way, but it can be thought of as, hi, hello, welcome to Mary's

0:29.1

Cup of Tea, the Self-Love Podcast for Women, though all self-lovers are welcome here. I'm Mary.

0:35.1

I write and speak about self-love, and I'm best known for my book,

0:39.6

the gift of self-love, and I also host retreats for women. And this is the podcast that will

0:45.2

inspire you to love yourself. In the mental health space, there's a tendency to talk about

0:50.5

anxiety as a personality trait, sometimes even as a personality flaw, which not only

0:57.4

is pathologizing, it's also disempowering and perhaps not actually what is going on biochemically,

1:06.6

which is why I invited our guest today, Dr. Ellen Vora, to talk about what we misunderstand about

1:14.0

anxiety and mental health and the mind-body connection. Of course, to listen and receive the

1:22.7

wisdom in this episode, you have to approach it with an open mind because it might challenge

1:27.4

a lot of what

1:28.7

you thought you knew or stuff you believed about your own brain. Dr. Ellen Vorra

1:35.4

unpack so much of that with deep, deep, deep compassion. I had such a fun time talking

1:41.9

with her and did not want this conversation to end. And in case

1:45.2

that helps to have her credentials, Dr. Ellen Vora is a board certified psychiatrist who takes

1:50.1

a functional medicine approach to mental health. She received her BA from Yale and her MD

1:55.4

from Columbia University. She's also the bestselling author of The Anatomy of Anxiety, Understanding and Overcoming

2:03.2

the Body's Fear Response, where she shares a whole person perspective on anxiety, mental health,

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