Have you been thinking about cutting someone off?

Like a friend who you used to feel close with, but now every interaction feels a little bit forced.

You feel drained.

You feel annoyed.

And you're wondering, should I let this person go?

If that's where you're at right now, this episode is for you.

Now, on the surface, that sounds like the right question to ask.

But from the spiritual perspective, it may not be the most helpful question to ask.

And so we're going to explore the considerations that we want to make when it comes to cutting people out of our life.

And at the end of this episode, I'm going to give you a stronger question to ask that will lead to more clarity, more growth, and even more peace around what

you're going to do next. But first, I'm going to walk you through some real life examples,

because the truth is, this stuff is pretty layered. And there's no easy one-size-fits-all solution

when it comes to navigating certain friendships. So let me start with the personal story.

Years ago, I had a friend who ended up sleeping with the women who I had just broken up with.

And because I wanted to see myself as this spiritual person, when he came to me and asked if it was okay if he dated her, I tried to take what I thought was the high road.

And I told myself that, yeah, sure, it's fine.

And I said, I'm not attached and everything's unfolding exactly as it should.

And no one owns anyone else.

All the spiritual stuff.

But deep down, I really wasn't okay with that.

And they ended up dating and it was a big drama.

And it took me a while to realize the truth of the situation. And the truth is,

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