Hey everybody. Thanks again for tuning into my podcast. Today we're going to be talking about what to do when the guy that you're seeing is pulling away from you. And I always say that women have like a six sense for men pulling away um even if you

can't really tell like even when he's spending time with you or just generally investing in the

relationship we can kind of feel when a guy is like emotionally distant or just pulling away from

us and so I'm going to give you some practical

advice and also I hope that this podcast will just calm your nerves because you might be feeling

like really insecure or uncomfortable when this is happening. So the first thing to realize is that

it's normal and it's natural. Sometimes when we're

getting really close to somebody, we have this urge to reestablish our independence and to do our

own thing, to have some space, to reconnect with our relationships outside of our main relationship.

And that is all completely normal. And it doesn't mean that anything is wrong with the relationship

that you're in. And sometimes you're actually going to be the one who needs some space or just

need some time to work on your own passions, spend some more time with

your friends or family, and just kind of do your own thing for a while separate from the relationship.

Usually this comes up for people when they've actually gotten really close to somebody.

So, for example, I was talking to a friend who

went on a seven-day cruise with the guy that she was dating, and they had the best time ever,

and they spent every day and every night together, and they had so much fun, and they didn't

fight even once. And so she was really confused when they got back home and he was suddenly busy all the time.

And he just needed to work and like focus on these things.

She was like, what is going on?

Like we had the best time.

And I told her that it was almost classic that he was needing to pull away or have some

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