What To Do If My Girlfriend Wants To Take The Lead & Plan A Date?

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2023

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Corey, Erica and Jocelyne discuss a viewer question on what you can do if your girlfriend takes the lead and plans a date.

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0:00.0	What do I do if my girlfriend wants to plan a surprise date for me and take the lead on it?
0:07.9	Baby, that sounds like a great idea. So give her a long list, say, well, I would like to stay in a nice five-star hotel.
0:17.5	I would like to sip on the finest cognac and champagne. I would like an all over
0:25.8	oriental body massage with plenty amounts of oil. I would like you to present my smoking jacket
0:33.2	and light my cigars for me and give me morning foot massages, breakfast in bed. And she's like, no, I'm just thinking about a birthday party and taking you out. I was like, okay. But it's like you want to have fun with it. So of course, absolutely. It's okay to receive. And I understand why he's bringing up because he's thinking, well, if I let her have control this one day, then I'm being a beta male, and then she's going to walk all over me, and then she's going to become the man in the relationship. It's okay to receive to have your girl plan something special for you, your friends, or your family. So absolutely. If she's willing to, that shows that she cares. She's wanting to spend her time and her money planning something special for you.
1:11.9	Love is allowing after all. So allow her to treat you like the king that you are.
1:17.4	I mean, dude, who doesn't love surprises? Like, I love surprises. I'm pretty sure all of us do.
1:22.6	So it's, it's a memory. It's something nice to think of. It's something positive.
1:27.9	Breakfast in bed is nice.
1:31.0	I mean, it's always good to be on the receiving end, but it's also good to be on, you know, the giving end.
1:41.6	Yeah, it's only fair.
1:42.8	I love to spoil, like, my friends and my family and my loved ones,
1:49.7	but I also like to be spoiled, too.
1:52.6	So, like, the things that I do.
1:54.9	Thanks.
1:56.8	And, of course, what guy doesn't either, right?
1:58.9	Exactly.
1:59.5	So, like, it doesn't matter if it's like from the little things.
2:02.4	Girls really like it.
2:03.4	The really big things.
2:05.1	Um, I think it's like great for relationships because it keeps them.
2:10.1	A Lambe would be nice.
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