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How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 β€’ 1.2K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 9 March 2026

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

πŸ”₯ FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet β€” The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: πŸ‘‰ https://winggirlmethod.com/kit πŸ“Ί Watch this episode on YouTube β†’ https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus β€” a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away β€” and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you β€” none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: βœ… What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to βœ… The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women βœ… Signs of interest most men completely miss βœ… What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection βœ… Why looks and money matter way less than you think βœ… What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more πŸ‘‹ Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:04.3

She doesn't respond. She pulls away. She picks the other guy and you're left wondering what

1:08.0

the hell he has that you don't. The truth is most men are doing things that actively push women away, and they have absolutely

1:14.7

no idea.

1:15.8

But what if you could hear directly from a woman that gets hit on thousands of times a day, yes,

1:20.6

thousands of times, and she can tell you what makes her into one guy and want one guy,

1:26.2

and then totally turned off by the other guys.

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