What Should I Say During A Panic Attack? (Episode 007)
Disordered: Anxiety Help
Josh Fletcher and Drew Linsalata
4.9 • 663 Ratings
🗓️ 28 April 2023
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
WHAT SHOULD I SAY DURING A PANIC ATTACK?
"What is the best thing for me to say to myself during a panic attack?"
This week on Disordered, Josh and Drew talk about strategies for self-talk, framing statements, action prompts, and non-compulsive ways to talk to yourself during a panic attack or high anxiety spike. The guys spend some time addressing the myth that one needs to be "talked down" from a panic attack and also cover how these concepts can be useful when supporting a friend or loved one that's experiencing panic or high anxiety.
Remember that you're supposed to be scared during a panic attack - that's just the mechanism working as designed. Don't judge yourself harshly or negatively for that, and steer clear of trying to find magic words or phrases that will make it go away. That's more harmful than helpful in the long run.
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| 0:00.0 | For those who want to know what you should say during a panic attack, we're going to use our personal and professional experience to guide you through it. |
| 0:10.7 | And so I didn't have a lot of success trying to talk myself through a panic attack, so I didn't do a lot of that. |
| 0:15.0 | When I told myself it's just anxiety, I didn't say it as a kind of magical spell to make the anxiety go away. |
| 0:23.6 | And my number one go to was, we've been here before. |
| 0:26.6 | Like, and it's never taken me down. |
| 0:28.6 | And then I would pretty much go silent. |
| 0:30.6 | It was often, you know, followed by the silent caveat of he's supposed to feel scared. |
| 0:36.6 | So to me, it's always the idea that I can acknowledge that you are genuinely terrified, |
| 0:41.3 | but to remind you that you've been there before and you're capable of moving through that. |
| 0:44.8 | One of your options is you don't have to say anything. It's completely fine. |
| 0:52.3 | Welcome to the Disordid Podcast. This is episode 7. |
| 0:56.7 | And the title of this episode is named after a question that both Drew and I received. |
| 1:03.1 | Ollie asks, how to talk to yourself during a panic attack or what should you say during a panic attack? |
| 1:12.4 | And what a great episode title that follows on from our last episode. |
| 1:17.6 | My name's Joshua Fletcher, also known as Anxiety Josh, and I'm a psychotherapist who specializes |
| 1:23.5 | in anxiety based in the UK. |
| 1:26.1 | And I am Drew Lin-Salada. |
| 1:29.5 | I am a graduate student in clinical mental health counseling, a therapist in training in the U.S. in the state of New York, and the co-host of |
| 1:34.6 | Disordered with anxiety, Josh. Yeah, disordered hosts, distorted podcast, distorted content. |
| 1:39.9 | It all fits together, man. Yeah, but it all fits together yeah i like that um first of all before we |
| 1:46.8 | get into this episode i think it's quite helpful to listen to the previous episode if you haven't |
| 1:52.6 | because this is kind of a part two but for those who want to know like what you should say during |
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