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111. Mike welcome to the program.

Good I have soon,

I.

Thank you so much for taking my call.

You're welcome.

What can I help?

So, I, well, and I will try to just talk in pieces so that I don't cut you off.

So I'm 60 years old.

I have a girlfriend that's about seven years younger than me.

We've been seeing each other for about four years. Our kids are all grown.

We have our own finances and pay for things, but we do a lot of stuff together. We have a really great relationship.

And finances usually doesn't. really does. But because we're her daughter's having a wedding soon. Money is kind

of tight for her. So about a week ago she pulled me aside if we just got back from

dinner and she said hey just

to know just you know my money's really tight right now I'm trying to help with the

the kids wedding and so let's between now and the end of the month I don't have a lot of money for going out that kind of stuff so we just kind of be aware of that

You know just if we can kind of just cool things a little bit between down the end of the month and I'm like, fine, you know, we both are on budgets and also that was fine. Well, two days ago, I'm picking her up at work and a friend of hers, I'm standing right there just waiting for her to get her stuff and a friend of hers, I'm standing right there just waiting for her to get her stuff, and a friend of hers, a girlfriend of her that work says, hey, do you want to go out Monday and get drinks and dinner?

And without even hesitation, she's like, yeah, absolutely, that'd be great and they start

making all these plans to go out and when it she was away from her friend I

simply said you went out of your way to tell me how tight money is or when your friend

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