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There was a light inside of every one of us in Ember that burns and begs us to become more

than what we have ever been. It's our aspirations that must become our allies.

I noticed that everything that I have accomplished over the course of my life, I accomplished

with a new set of beliefs and a new set of habits. I noticed I was able to make things happen

when I destroyed the door in the room. See, I don't care what your goal is, it could be relationships,

it could be to lose weight, it could be to make more money, it could be to become something nobody

in your family has ever been. The moment that you destroy the door, the way out, in the room of

your dream, that's when you're making it happen. What you do while you are in pain will echo through

the ages. Scrape the grill of your past and get all that junk out of there of every memory of

every failure. You need to unplug from everybody and everything that is telling you that you cannot

have your future, that you cannot have this goal, that you can't do what's on your heart to do.

You got to unplug, unplug, unplug, unplug, unplug. There are too many people in your life that

keep telling you that you are not qualified, that you don't have what it takes, that you will never

be able to accomplish because your resume ain't long enough because you don't have the experience

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