meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

What’s Your Dating Mentality? What You Think Effects How You Date [Singles Panel Part 1]

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9757 Ratings

🗓️ 22 November 2022

⏱️ 44 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

What is your dating mentality? Because what you think effects how you date. Because your mentality is so important when it comes to dating.  It’s really mind over matter. Your thought life impacts your dating life. And sometimes, the thoughts are much more subtle than you realize. I’m so excited to talk more about your dating mentality…and even more excited to have a panel of SINGLES (scroll down to meet them!) joining me for the next few episodes of the podcast in our SINGLES PANEL SERIES. We’re getting into the minds of Christian singles from across the country, asking them all about the dating scene, the single life, and everything you wanted to know about the opposite sex but never wanted to ask over the next three episodes. Today we’re talking about how your MENTALITY impacts how and who you date. It’s a mindset that you bring in with you to dating, and the health of your mindset determines the health of your dating life.  I can’t wait for you to hear this episode, and get to know our singles panel! So tune in to today’s episode on the Love & Relationships Podcast and follow the show by clicking on the button below! FOLLOW MY PODCAST AND LISTEN ON Apple PODCASTS BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY –  iHEART RADIO The Debra Fileta Counselors Network is taking new clients!! Book a session with one of our trained Christian counselors and get started on your healing journey from the inside-out TODAY! BOOK A SESSION.  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written five books including Choosing Marriage, True Love Dates, Love In Every Season, Are You Really OK? and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast answering listener questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. GET TO KNOW OUR SINGLES PANEL Michael Szapkiw: Nashville, TN  @michaelszapkiw (Instagram) @crownofstrength (Instagram) https://CrownOfStrength.com Michael Szapkiw says he’s just a real guy who wants to love God, love people and fight for those who need it. Lover of outdoor adventures, world and domestic travel, trying all the foods, fitness, and good health, Michael is always ready to share a good laugh, encouragement, or the latest in digital marketing. Visit CrownOfStrength.com for his latest podcast and content to encourage you on your Christian journey. Andrew Kelley: Lancaster, PA  Instagram: @andrewtkelley I am from Waynesville, NC, and I moved to Pennsylvania almost 10 years ago. I work as a music director in Lancaster, PA at a church Hove with a team I love! I’m passionate about seeing Jesus’ church built, and strengthened, and I’ve loved that He’s allowed me to be a part of that through this season of my life. Joshua Barucky: Cleveland, Ohio Instagram: @joshua8646 I’m like if a tree trunk came alive, developed an offbeat sense of humor, and started serving God. When I’m not serving or developing my start-up, you’ll find me traveling, staying active, or chasing my cat around the house. Breauna Nichole: Dallas, TX @breaunanichole I’m excited about what’s to come! I’m putting in the work now to ripple into my family and rewrite what it looks like to be whole spiritually, emotionally and generously serve and give and reach others. Sandra Romero: Bradenton, Florida Instagram @color.bliss.designs Sandra is enjoying one of the best stages of her life as a single mother.   For Sandra, the trauma of an unwanted divorce in the hands of Jesus, has resulted in true surrender to God, healing of past wounds, restored hope, self awareness and new dreams for the future. She believes in actively partnering with God in the pursuit of all her dreams and hopes for the future, including a kingdom marriage.  She is happy to offer an authentic perspective representing a group of singles who have unique experiences. Stacey Szczepanski: Michigan Instagram:  @livelaughlove0206 Facebook: Stacey Szczepanski Hi! I am a 37 year old elementary educator who loves traveling, journaling, being in nature, and spreading the Lord’s light and love to all I meet and encounter.  We all have a story and I believe it’s through our experiences, mistakes, and learning that we continue to grow into our healthiest versions of ourselves.  I’m excited to put myself back out into the dating world again! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

This episode is brought to you by Sun Express Airlines.

0:04.6

Looking for an affordable escape for the whole family, Sun Express has you covered.

0:09.8

Early birth deals to Turkey start at just 599, fly non-stop to Sanyantalia or Scenic Ismia.

0:17.4

Perfect for making family memories.

0:19.8

These low fares won't last long. So book now,

0:23.0

tan later at sunexpress.com and secure your seats today. Hey everyone. Welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast, a hotline style show,

0:52.7

where people call in with all of their questions about love,

0:56.1

sex, dating, singleness, marriage, and mental and emotional health. I'm your host, Deborah

1:02.0

Felata, and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid, unscripted conversations where I answer

1:07.5

your questions in short, bite-sized, practical answers.

1:11.8

For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor,

1:15.5

relationship expert, an author of five books.

1:18.5

I also run the popular relationship advice blog, TrueLovedates.com,

1:22.9

reaching millions of people with the message that healthy people make healthy relationships.

1:28.9

If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it by voice memo to

1:33.3

Deborah at truelovedates.com or submit it on my podcast page, truelovedates.com slash love and

1:41.0

relationships. And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. Let's dig in to

1:47.5

today's topic. We're doing something a little different over the next few podcast episodes.

1:55.1

As some of you might know, true lovdates.com, my relationship advice blog, originally started as a

2:00.5

ministry for singles. I've always had a

2:03.1

very special place in my heart for singles, and I truly believe if we want healthier marriages,

2:08.3

we have to start with healthy singles. So I've invited some of my single listeners to join me

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.