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Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

What's Under the Bed Edition

Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

Slate Audio

Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.41K Ratings

🗓️ 2 November 2017

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Carvell Wallace, Rebecca Lavoie, and Gabriel Roth discuss phone etiquette, what to do about a teenage boy's under-bed ephemera, trick or treating, a tough question about a father who doesn't get along with his son, and more. 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast contains explicit language.

0:09.8

Welcome to Mom and Dad are Fighting, Slate's Parenting podcast for Thursday, November 2nd,

0:14.1

though What's Under the Bad Edition.

0:15.7

I'm Gabriel Roth, an editor at Slate, and I am the father of Eliza, who is six years old, and Leo, who is three years old.

0:21.6

I'm Rebecca Lavoie, a digital journalist and podcaster in New Hampshire. And I am mom to Henry,

0:26.8

who is 16, Teddy, who is 14, and my stepdaughter, Lily, who is 17. And I am Carvel Wallace, a father

0:34.1

and writer and podcaster based out in Oakland, California, but today reporting from

0:38.6

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. And I'm the father of Georgia who is 12 and Ezra who is 14.

0:45.3

Today on our show, we have questions from listeners. We have recommendations. On Slate Plus, Rebecca

0:51.2

is going to tell us what happened when a small New Hampshire school district attempted to combat sexual harassment and found their efforts awarded by high school boys.

1:00.1

But first, we have triumphs and fails.

1:02.6

Rebecca, triumph or fail?

1:04.3

I've got to fail.

1:05.6

I have a fail in that I did not take a parenting, teaching opportunity and discussion opportunity that fell into my lap.

1:14.2

I was too much of a frady cat and just avoided it.

1:17.5

So I, last week, as I mentioned, I didn't do any parenting because the boys were with their dad for the first time in a couple of months for the whole week.

1:24.6

So I took the opportunity to do some rearranging in Teddy's room. He had two

1:29.3

twin beds in his room and his room isn't very big. So he had expressed an interest in taking out one of

1:34.7

the twin beds so he would just have a little bit more space. And so I thought he's not here. It's a good

1:39.3

time to do that. So because of the way his room is configured, the twin bed that I took out isn't the one that he was sleeping on, but the one he was sleeping on was in better condition. So I had to move the one he was sleeping on to the other side of the room. And when I did that, I found so much weird and disgusting crap under his bed, like the kind of thing that in most circumstances, you might be like, hey, what are you doing with this?

2:09.3

I'll give you some, like, benign examples of some of the things I've under his bed.

2:13.5

War myself with the benign examples and then we'll move on to the more malign example.

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