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10% Happier with Dan Harris

"What's the Point?" – A Simple Answer to Life's Biggest Question | Lili Taylor

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Media, LLC

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.612.9K Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2026

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Escaping the productivity trap, silencing the inner nihilist, and finding awe in the most ordinary places.

Lili Taylor is an award-winning movie, television, and theater actor. In the birding world, Lili is a board member of the National Audubon Society, the American Birding Association, and the New York City Bird Alliance.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Why humans are hardwired to connect with nature 
  • What it means to "pay attention"
  • The role of  listening and investigation 
  • Antidotes to hopelessness
  • How to overcome obstacles in your meditation practice
  • Practical nature tips for city dwellers 
  • The liberating concept of "autotelic" activities

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

0:08.0

Hello, my fellow suffering beings, how are we doing today? One of the biggest ongoing issues in my life

0:24.1

is that sometimes I feel like I'm just trudging through my to-do list. There's this great quote from a former mayor of

0:30.6

New York City. I forgot which mayor, but many decades ago, this mayor coined a nice phrase, the squalid

0:36.1

succession of days.

0:38.6

And if you're just in a constant state of toppling forward,

0:42.0

looking at everything through the lens of productivity,

0:45.0

life really can feel like a squalid succession of days.

0:48.3

So today we're going to talk about doing stuff just for the pleasure of doing it.

0:53.0

No ulterior motive, nothing to gain. The only purpose is the

0:56.6

experience itself. Although actually, and this is interesting, these types of activities, which again,

1:02.4

you just do for the fun and pleasure of the activity itself, can also put you in touch with awe,

1:08.1

which is an incredibly powerful human emotion that is genuinely transformative.

1:13.6

My guest today is Lily Taylor, who you've probably seen in innumerable movies and plays and

1:19.8

TV shows. She was in Mystic Pizza and Say Anything back in the 80s. Then she was in I shot Andy Warhol and

1:25.7

Ransom. She was also in high fidelity, public enemies, the TV show American Crime, also the X-Files,

1:32.1

six feet under.

1:32.7

I could go on.

1:33.7

The reason why I wanted to have Lily on the show, however, is not because of her illustrious

1:39.2

career, although we'll talk a little bit about that.

1:41.8

But really, it's because she wrote a book about birds.

1:45.3

It's called Turning to Birds, and it's just come out in paperback.

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