"What's the Point?" – A Simple Answer to Life's Biggest Question | Lili Taylor
10% Happier with Dan Harris
10% Media, LLC
4.6 • 12.9K Ratings
🗓️ 8 May 2026
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
Escaping the productivity trap, silencing the inner nihilist, and finding awe in the most ordinary places.
Lili Taylor is an award-winning movie, television, and theater actor. In the birding world, Lili is a board member of the National Audubon Society, the American Birding Association, and the New York City Bird Alliance.
In this episode we talk about:
- Why humans are hardwired to connect with nature
- What it means to "pay attention"
- The role of listening and investigation
- Antidotes to hopelessness
- How to overcome obstacles in your meditation practice
- Practical nature tips for city dwellers
- The liberating concept of "autotelic" activities
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- The Science Of How Nature Changes Your Brain—From Sleep To Cognition To Your Nervous System
- The Science Of Walking
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- Turning to Birds
- Turning to Birds on Substack
- A Pocket Guide to Pigeon Watching
- The Hunger Games: Sunrise on the Reaping
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| 0:00.0 | This is the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris. |
| 0:08.0 | Hello, my fellow suffering beings, how are we doing today? One of the biggest ongoing issues in my life |
| 0:24.1 | is that sometimes I feel like I'm just trudging through my to-do list. There's this great quote from a former mayor of |
| 0:30.6 | New York City. I forgot which mayor, but many decades ago, this mayor coined a nice phrase, the squalid |
| 0:36.1 | succession of days. |
| 0:38.6 | And if you're just in a constant state of toppling forward, |
| 0:42.0 | looking at everything through the lens of productivity, |
| 0:45.0 | life really can feel like a squalid succession of days. |
| 0:48.3 | So today we're going to talk about doing stuff just for the pleasure of doing it. |
| 0:53.0 | No ulterior motive, nothing to gain. The only purpose is the |
| 0:56.6 | experience itself. Although actually, and this is interesting, these types of activities, which again, |
| 1:02.4 | you just do for the fun and pleasure of the activity itself, can also put you in touch with awe, |
| 1:08.1 | which is an incredibly powerful human emotion that is genuinely transformative. |
| 1:13.6 | My guest today is Lily Taylor, who you've probably seen in innumerable movies and plays and |
| 1:19.8 | TV shows. She was in Mystic Pizza and Say Anything back in the 80s. Then she was in I shot Andy Warhol and |
| 1:25.7 | Ransom. She was also in high fidelity, public enemies, the TV show American Crime, also the X-Files, |
| 1:32.1 | six feet under. |
| 1:32.7 | I could go on. |
| 1:33.7 | The reason why I wanted to have Lily on the show, however, is not because of her illustrious |
| 1:39.2 | career, although we'll talk a little bit about that. |
| 1:41.8 | But really, it's because she wrote a book about birds. |
| 1:45.3 | It's called Turning to Birds, and it's just come out in paperback. |
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