What's something you found out about your significant other, years into the relationship, that made you reevaluate the whole thing?

Nine months into the relationship, I found out he had a court date.

He told me it was for assaulting a bouncer.

Very soon after, his mother admitted that he had a court date for assaulting his underage relative.

When I confronted him about this, he said that the underage girl raped him.

When I told him he was full of crap, he went on to admit that she did something for him that I will not say.

Soon after, I went into his lawyer's office with him and read the transcript.

It turns out he had graped his underage niece twice and just tells a different lie to anyone who asks him why he's in jail.

Total piece of crap.

I ran very fast, haven't seen him since, and I hope I will never see him again.

About one year in, he told me he was about to get full custody of his son.

I didn't know he had a son.

About a year in, I found out she lied to me about getting an STD test.

Turned out she had more than one SDD, which somehow I tested clean for.

There is actually a reason for that.

Some STDs have an easier time transmitting from men to women than from women to men.

When I had my first child, the pregnancy wasn't a surprise or an accident.

We talked and planned.

He got a little overbearing

during the pregnancy, like insisting on breastfeeding without even discussing it with me.

I put it down to new dad nerves and not knowing any better. Turns out that was only the tip of the

iceberg. He believed that children were completely and totally a wife's responsibility. He wouldn't

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