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The Brian Lehrer Show

What's in a Hyphenated Married Name?

The Brian Lehrer Show

WNYC

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4.61.5K Ratings

🗓️ 4 January 2024

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Rachel Gutman-Wei, supervisory senior associate editor at The Atlantic asks, "Why does a silly little hyphen make so many people uncomfortable, or unsettled, or even—God forbid—uncomfortable-unsettled?" She joins us to explore what she sees as the American aversion to hyphenated married names.→ The Least Common, Least Loved Names in America

Transcript

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0:00.0

Brian Lear on WNYC so So an essay in the Atlantic says,

0:14.6

why does a silly little hyphen

0:17.1

make so many people uncomfortable or unsettled

0:20.8

or even, God forbid uncomfortable dash unsettled.

0:25.0

Does that sound familiar?

0:26.5

Do people wince at your hyphenated last name?

0:29.4

The piece in the Atlantic is called the least common, least loved names in America, and it's by senior

0:37.1

associate editor Rachel Goodman Way.

0:40.2

So G-T-M-A-N-W-E-I Rachel Goodman Way,

0:45.0

so she has a personal stake in this,

0:47.2

and says she figured combining her and her husband's last name

0:50.4

seemed like a normal thing to do, or at least unobjectionable, but objections have indeed

0:55.2

been raised.

0:56.2

So we'll talk about some of those objections and because most of the concern about

1:01.1

hyphenated last names, Rachel Rachel writes is directed at women. We'll get

1:05.4

some of the into some of the cultural factors in this too. Rachel thanks for the

1:09.1

article. Thanks for coming on. Welcome to WNY. Thanks Brian. Thanks for having me. And listeners you on upon getting married and if you're on the fence maybe Rachel Gutman Way can give you some

1:25.8

advice to one two four three WNY C two one two four three three nine six nine62, or maybe you are one of those people who finds the whole idea

1:38.0

unsettled dash objectionable.

1:41.0

212 433 9692, call or text.

1:47.0

So you want to introduce this by describing your own experience

1:50.0

with hyphenating, your and your spouse's last name when you got married, how'd you come to that decision?

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