My calculation is moving more and more towards staying home, because I don't know what the right thing to do is.

This is death, sex, and money from WNYC. I'm Anna Sale.

And this is a listener who emailed us last week.

She's 32 and lives alone in Virginia.

And she's been sober for a little less than a year and a half.

One of our, like, cliche slogans that you hear people say, and was one of the songs in Frozen

too, is like, do the next right thing, right?

I love that song.

It's so good.

And, you know, Kristen Bell's husband is in recovery, and I was like, they totally stole.

One of our things.

So I'll walk through this night, stumbling blindly toward the light, and do the next right thing.

I'm not kidding, I really do love this song.

And after two weeks at home with my daughters, I have been hearing a lot of it.

Anyway, we've been hearing a lot from you about some of the challenges of being forced to stay at home,

particularly for those of you who are in recovery, or are sober.

So I wanted to talk to this listener about that.

Her job is in social services, and she didn't want to use her real name.

We can do Chloe.

It's the name I used to give guys I didn't want to talk to at bars when I was still drinking.

Regular 12-step meetings helped Chloe stop drinking.

But that routine, along with everything else, is in flux.

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