So we're going to practice some self-awareness together here to start our time together.

Okay. So I'm just going to ask you to be really honest with yourself. You don't have to tell me.

You don't have to tell anybody and save your elbows. Okay. This is just you.

This is no one else. Okay. Don't think about any else. Just think about you.

I want you to answer, where, when, or with whom do you tend to have a short fuse? Okay, like, like where, and what environments,

okay, like, where is it? Is it at work? Is it at home? Right. Where are those environments? When,

you know, is it when you're trying to get out of the house, when you're stuck in traffic, when

times are stressful? And then with whom? What people, right? Is your kids, your spouse,

someone that you work with? Like, who is it with those people that you tend to have a short fuse?

Like your fuse is just shorter. Your capacity for patience is just a lot less. And when you're there

and when you're in those moments and when you're in front of

those people, you're a lot more likely to lose it. You're not more likely to lash out and get angry

or to try to get even or to blow up or maybe even get up and walk away. Another way to ask it is

where, when, or with whom do you tend to lose your patience?

Because I'm a great leader, I'm going to go first, okay?

I, I, I, it's actually shocking how many answers to this question that I have.

But one, I'll tell you about this happens to me all the time when I'm driving.

Okay? I am one of those people that press the horn before I press the break. It just feels appropriate.

And I have this illogical way of thinking that my honking teaches people how to drive better.

I take it as a personal responsibility of mine to show people how to do better. I take it as a personal responsibility of mine to show people

how to do better. And my horn somehow communicates that information. It doesn't escalate anything.

It helps, clearly. And so I found myself in a situation and my wife, Julie, is always that,

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