What Our Fantasies Mean and Sex Coaching with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey

Doing It! with Hannah Witton

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Health & Fitness, Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture

4.8 • 651 Ratings

🗓️ 2 September 2020

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Hannah is joined by Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey, who is a psychologist and an intimacy and sex coach.Lori Beth discusses the work she does and some of her own personal experiences. She and Hannah talk about the difference between sex therapy and sex coaching, and some of the problems her clients come to her with around desire and arousal. Hannah and Lori Beth discuss what our sexual fantasies really mean about our deepest desires, how fantasies can differ from what we actually want in real life, and how to use our fantasies to benefit us instead of making us feel ashamed.

❗ CW: Lori Beth describes a personal experience of sexual violence at 29:57 - 31:00. This episode also includes discussion of sexual violence and trauma in the context of sex therapy and coaching throughout the episode as well as discussion of consensual non-consensual fantasies and how they can affect the people having them.

✨MORE ABOUT DR LORI BETH BISBEY✨
Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past sexual trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships.
- Website: https://the-intimacy-coach.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbisbey/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/drbisbey

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0:00.0	At Wix, save on Dulac's standard 2.5 litre coloured emulsion, was 23 pound, now 15.
0:06.0	Feel as proud as a peacock with Wix.
0:08.3	Ends Wednesday in terms apply.
0:10.0	Sometimes you try something and it just doesn't work out.
0:12.9	So I've seen people try and enact like my favorite one.
0:15.9	It was a pirate fantasy, right?
0:18.2	Love it.
0:19.0	Yeah, I thought it was wonderful.
0:20.2	But it was great fun in her head. But when they
0:22.5	enacted it, it just was clumsy. And she said, they laughed the whole time. And she was really
0:27.3	upset by this. And I was like, why are you upset? You had a great time laughing with your partner.
0:35.3	Welcome to Doing It with me, Hannah Witten, where we talk all things, sex, relationships, dating and our bodies.
0:46.8	Hi everyone, welcome back to doing it. How are you? How are you? I am doing very well. Thank you for asking. I cannot wait to introduce
0:57.8	you to this week's guest, Dr. Laurie Beth Bisby. Lorry Beth is a psychologist and intimacy and
1:05.6	sex coach and she is just so wonderful and open about the work that she does in this episode and some of her personal experiences.
1:15.8	At one point in this episode, she describes a personal experience of sexual violence,
1:21.7	and I will put timestamps in the description and in the show notes,
1:25.2	which are on our website if you want to skip that part.
1:29.7	Remember to look after yourself first. We also talk about topics around sexual violence and
1:36.3	trauma in the context of sex therapy and coaching more generally throughout the episode.
1:43.2	A lot of ground is covered in this episode.
1:46.1	I was curious to learn about the difference between sex therapy and sex coaching.
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