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Seeing Other People

What Not to Talk About on a First Date with Alexis AKA NYC Date Nite

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2021

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

We go on a date with Alexis Wolfe AKA @nycdatenite to talk all about post-pandemic dating. From getting back out there and going on that first in-person date in over a year, to determining what the best and worst types of places to go on a first date are, we’re covering all of the bases for you to shoot your shot at love (after getting that #vax shot).

-How to choose a first date spot

-What not to talk about on your date

-Why you shouldn’t have a regular “first date spot”

-What to do if you’re not yet comfortable with indoor dining

-How to tell someone you don’t want to go to the place they suggested

-What to do if you think you’re getting ghosted

-Bachelor & Bachelorette of the week


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0:00.0

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0:06.0

Maybe go out with a guy that, like, you're not really interested in at all.

0:09.9

I mean, I know it seems like you're using him.

0:11.7

Whoa.

0:13.1

What?

0:13.8

Hold on what?

0:14.8

You're giving him the opportunity that maybe he wouldn't have gotten and maybe it will work out.

0:20.4

So that's what I was going to say.

0:21.5

That's the love story.

0:22.6

Hold on.

0:22.9

Is that something that people do?

0:24.5

Like, do girls take out guys they don't really like as practice dates?

0:28.8

Jonah's like, has this been every date I've gone on?

0:31.6

But I'm just saying if you're nervous after a year and you want to get your feet wet, you know, maybe there's a guy that you've been talking to for the past like month, but you haven't gone out because of COVID. You just got your vaccine. Maybe you don't want him to be a first date. Oh, you're looking at me, like waiting for me to say something. And I'm like, what am I supposed to say? And I was like, oh, right. I say, hey, guys, it's Lana. And then you say, and Jonah from Brooklyn. Let's keep this intro. And Jonah from Brooklyn. Yes, love it. Happy Tuesday, everybody. Happy Tuesday, everyone. Oh, and you're listening to seeing other people. Welcome back for another episode.

1:11.2

Yeah, this is seeing other people's podcast.

1:13.1

This is not the Daily.

1:14.4

This is not the Victory podcast.

1:17.7

Shout out, former friend of, a friend of the show, Jerry Ferrara.

1:20.9

This is not Hannah Montana, though I wish it was.

1:23.8

Okay.

1:30.3

The show or a podcast about Hannah Montana? Either.

1:31.3

You know, you should do a podcast.

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