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🗓️ 27 October 2024

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

He didn’t find his grandfather. But traveling to, photographing, and uploading his grandfather’s memorial stone gave him something else. 


Guest: Tony Tran, senior tech editor at Slate and author of the feature “My Weekends with the Dead.


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0:00.0

Turning an idea into a small business doesn't happen by accident.

0:03.6

You need to be all in. At constant contact, we have the digital marketing tools you need to get the word out,

0:09.2

close the sale, raise the funds, and gather a community around this thing you've built.

0:13.6

So let's do this together.

0:15.1

Let's send this, share this, and shout this from the rooftops.

0:18.2

Let's segment this, automate this, and AI this for real results fast.

0:22.8

Let's get out of this what we put into this.

0:24.5

Let's build this, let's grow this, let's win this.

0:27.3

Get started today at constant contact.com. The journey defined my grandfather started back in 2017 or thereabouts when I decided to find his identity for the first time.

0:43.4

Tony Tran, slate senior tech editor, didn't have much information to go by.

0:50.6

His grandparents met in Vietnam during the war. And growing up, I never knew who he was and my mom never knew who he was because her mom, my grandma and her had lost contact with him shortly after the war.

1:06.4

And my grandma was very, very kind of hush-hush about who he was, like very cagey.

1:11.7

Tony's grandmother left Vietnam not long after the war

1:14.8

and was always pretty quiet about the specifics

1:18.0

of the man she fell in love with.

1:20.4

We knew some things.

1:21.2

We knew there was an American soldier who served in Vietnam during the mid to late 60s and left in the early 70s and I always wanted to find his identity and it wasn't until I embarked on this genealogy project was I able to find him.

1:36.0

Part of the way Tony did that was by using the website find a grave.com. The site is a vast repository of information.

1:44.0

Pictures of headstones, family photos, little memorials to the dead.

1:49.0

Throughout the process of looking for his identity and trying to find out who he was, I would

1:54.5

find different, like find a grave memorials and pages.

1:57.8

And it always came across my mind, like, would have I found him on one of these websites one day.

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