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Alright guys, welcome back to the show. I have such a fun episode today. You are going to love this.

I'm talking to Matt Libry. Matt is an award-winning entrepreneur, host of the decoding success podcast and fellow New Yorker, shout out to all my New Yorkers.

I wanted to bring Matt on the show today for a couple reasons. One, because I think he's just doing really cool shit. If you don't listen to his podcast, go check it out.

We're going to link it in the show notes for you along with his Insta and all that other stuff in his website.

But recently on his show, I have been hearing him talk a lot about relationships, and he gives a lot of really interesting insight from the male perspective when it comes to love and dating relationships.

I think that there's a lot of noise out there about what men really want, but a lot of that noise and quote advice is coming from other women.

So I thought, wouldn't it be cool to reach out to Matt, bring him on the show and ask him the things we all really want to know as women?

Things like, do men really love to chase? Are men really intimidated by successful women?

Do men get turned off if a woman sleeps with them too soon or pursues them? Like all of these burning questions.

So Matt agreed, and I've got him on the show today. I'm actually on his podcast next. We did a little swap.

So you're going to get a double dose of this conversation. It was so much fun.

So go and grab a glass of wine, get ready, share this with all of your girls. This is juicy stuff.

So without further ado, here is my conversation with Matt Libry.

All right. Matt, welcome to style your mind. I'm so excited to have you here.

I am super grateful for the opportunity to be here. So thank you so much.

Yeah. So I gave a little introduction earlier to my audience.

But can you tell us a little bit more about who you are and what you do?

Oh, shit. I know that's a loaded the most loaded question ever.

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