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Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Akmi and Happy New Year.

I'm sure so sick of hearing that in every work email that you've received, but

I actually mean it. I feel like this is going to be a really good year and I don't know, I just,

I feel it in my bones. So I'll start with a few, um, write-ins. Uh, we have a few different emails

and one person DMed this in. So they said, I read my boyfriend's texts this weekend. They weren't bad,

but a lot of guy talk about women's bodies. Like she's hot or I'd buck her. And then some old text

text is she says, I know it's on me for reading his texts, but it got me thinking.

So wondering if you have any podcasts on trust or reading texts or guy talk or anything in the

realm. Um, so I really refuse to go through a partner's phone unless they've given me like a

serious reason to. And even if they have, I, I really don't want to do it because you're never

going to find something positive. I will say that I have never seen a current partner saying to

someone, she's hot or I'd fuck her. And if I did, I would be livid and I would be probably done.

But that's why you can't read someone's phone because it's very possible that in some point in

my life, when I was in a relationship, I saw someone and said, he's hot or something along those

lines. Um, however, in terms of it, just being disrespectful to women, that's a whole other issue.

And again, I would also be livid. I think, you know, I think it's like, it's a maturity thing.

I think mature people, guys, girls, you know, over like a nearing 30 should not be saying that

kind of stuff, especially if they're in a relationship and they're respectful to their partner.

I just don't think that that's nice. And I don't think that it's necessary. But I do think that

you should be in a relationship where you have trust not to read your partner's texts because I

feel like if you don't have that, then it's not good. Trust is one of the most important things

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