What is A HOOVER?
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 21 January 2025
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
What is hoovering from a narcissist?
What's going on beautiful people, if the is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee & I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 & it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims get validation & the Narcissists get to see that you can get help
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on, beautiful folks? |
| 0:03.4 | Today, we're going to be answering the question. |
| 0:05.8 | What is a Hoover or what is hovering? |
| 0:09.8 | Two O's or one O. |
| 0:11.0 | Doesn't matter. |
| 0:11.5 | It's the same thing when it comes to toxic narcissistic relationships. |
| 0:14.6 | Like, what exactly is it? |
| 0:16.4 | Like, do you get Hoover? |
| 0:17.6 | Does everybody get the hoover? |
| 0:18.3 | What is it? |
| 0:19.5 | If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammock. |
| 0:21.5 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist. |
| 0:23.1 | And welcome to another episode of the Narcissist Code. |
| 0:25.5 | Let's get it, y'all. |
| 0:46.3 | You know? What's going on, folks. |
| 0:47.8 | Welcome back, welcome back, welcome back. |
| 0:51.0 | Yes, Hooverine. |
| 0:53.3 | What is Hoovering? |
| 1:31.5 | The Hoover, the dreaded Hoover, the Hoover, the Hoover vacuum cleaner. What is it? What is Hoovering? I get this question a lot. If y'all been following me for any amount of time, whatever side is on. Hoover. That's how you spell it. Hoover was named after a vacuum cleaner. The Hoover vacuum cleaner. It means sucking things back in, right? It means to get sucked back in to a relationship dynamic. To me, as I diagnosed narcissists, hoovering is any unwanted contact after the discard phase or after you break up with them after you leave their relationship, right? |
| 1:48.9 | Hoovering is any like y'all, listen to me, any capital A-N-Y, any unwanted contact after the relationship has ended. To could damn near qualify as a hoover this is what happens this is the mentality this is what you will face when you're dealing with a narcissistic |
| 1:54.3 | person with an abusive person they will damn near almost inevitably try to hoover you back in not |
| 2:00.7 | everybody gets hoovered y'all not |
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