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Fierce Marriage

What if my spouse OVER communicates?

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 24 May 2022

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Is it possible to OVER communicate? Apparently, it is. Watch to see what that could mean for your marriage!Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

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0:00.0

So we got a really good question from one of you guys about overcommunication in marriage. Can you

0:04.7

actually talk too much or as we've been doing some research and reading, you can actually like more

0:12.2

communication, more talking, doesn't always equal a reconciliation. It doesn't always mean that

0:17.2

things will work out. So we're going to kind of check that out, see if too much talking just leads

0:24.3

to frustration or it usually leads to one of us withdrawing, right? And so where does it come from?

0:29.3

Why does somebody just feel the need to just, just, just, just, just, just, just, just, like, all the time?

0:33.4

And how do we know if we're an overcommunicator, how do we know if our spouse is?

0:37.4

They're not just being annoying. And then what do we do with it? What do we do with it? We all

0:42.4

have annoying moments. Let's just be honest. So we are going to talk about that on the other side.

0:47.2

I never annoy Ryan. He is always annoying to me. He's always annoyed by me.

0:59.7

There it is. There you have it. That's the hot-take folks.

1:01.7

There it is. Yeah, overcommunication. You use the, you say to someone, which is like, that,

1:06.0

that, that, that, that, that, he reminds me. So when we were in Switzerland, this, it wasn't going

1:08.8

to sound crazy. There was a lady, if you don't know our story, excuse me, we were in Switzerland

1:14.3

right after we graduated from college. We got married in college. It was like 10 years,

1:17.8

15 years ago. 15 years ago. Yeah. And I got put in the hospital. I was really sick.

1:22.2

By the book of yours marriage, you don't know that story. We're making pay for it. That's

1:25.8

it. I had a heart thing. And it almost killed me. And I was in the hospital. And this, I was

1:31.1

sharing a room with a, with an elderly man. His wife would come in. And that just reminded me

1:36.7

of my wife. Because just, duh, duh. There was this, it was Swiss German. And so it was this kind of,

1:42.4

has this, like, sweet, if you know what Swiss German sounds like, you know, I'm talking about,

1:45.1

but it's got kind of the swing to it. And she just would not stop talking for hours. Yeah.

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