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Flying Free

What if My Christian Husband Says My Body Belongs to Him? [230]

Flying Free

Natalie Hoffman

Emotional, Narcissism, Christianity, Abuse, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual, Christian, Self-improvement, Education, Divorce, Marriage

51K Ratings

🗓️ 4 July 2023

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Let’s answer some more listener questions today! These questions include, “How do I respond to my husband who says that ‘Your body belongs to me, and you don't have any biblical grounds to say no when I want sex’?” “How can we continue to do the work of unraveling purity culture's effects if we're not in a healthy marriage?” and “What type of counselor should I be looking for?”


If you’re looking for some Biblical truth, a *few* snarky comments, and some very practical advice, you’re looking in the right place.


Key Points From This Episode:

  • Some wise responses to an abusive husband who mistakenly believes that you owe him sex whenever he wants.
  • A plethora of verses to combat the lie that “your body belongs to your husband.”
  • How to unravel purity culture’s long-lasting effects on us while still in an abusive marriage.
  • How to find a *good* counselor.
  • Why it’s not your responsibility to find your abusive husband a counselor.
  • Why people who are NOT in abusive marriages NEVER wonder, “Am I in an abusive marriage?”
  • How to “break up” with your counselor. Spoiler alert: no sappy break-up letters necessary.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now.com and you're listening to the

0:09.3

Flying Free Podcast, a support resource for Women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden

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emotional and spiritual abuse. Welcome to episode 230 of the Flying Free Podcast. Today we are going to talk all about

0:30.0

sex, sex and counseling. be buckle up here we go

0:37.0

hi Natalie I've been listening to your

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podcast

0:41.0

for probably over a year and I have a question how does one respond to the husband

0:50.9

saying well your body belongs to me and you have no biblical grounds to say no when I ask for sex.

1:00.0

I've heard this statement and it just makes me cringe inside and just doesn't feel right.

1:10.0

So how can you answer, how can you answer and respond to this statement?

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Thank you so much.

1:17.6

Okay, so the recording wasn't real high quality.

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So basically what she's asking is,

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how do you respond to a husband who says

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that your body belongs to me and you don't have

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any biblical grounds to say no when I want sex?

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How do you answer that? Well first of all our bodies belong to God. They don't

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belong to another human being. When someone says your body belongs to me, that's called slavery. When someone belongs to another human being,

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it's called slavery. And when someone forces themselves on another person in our society, we call that rape. So basically your husband has

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taken a verse from the Bible and twisted it to say that God has given him a mandate to enslave and rape you.

2:07.0

This is a very twisted satanic perspective.

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And it's interesting because when we think about, you know, our idea of what the devil is, we think that entity of darkness is all about taking God's words of wisdom and then turning them into instead of being something that's supposed

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