What If I Want to Reach Out to the Affair Partner?
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 21 May 2019
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
There are always unanswered questions about an affair that can spin endlessly in the mind of the one betrayed. What are some considerations in pursuing the idea? What would you say? Listen as Ashlynn shares her thoughts on what she did when she reached out to Coby's second affair partner.
We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring
To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey.
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| 0:00.0 | So what if you have the question that you're having a really hard time not reaching out to the person that your spouse or partner had the affair with? You want more answers. |
| 0:11.0 | What's up, Recovery Warriors? Have you seen our Patreon site yet? If not you need to go check it out. As you know here on the podcast you get this content for free. |
| 0:20.0 | But over on Patreon, it gives us the opportunity to give you more interaction with us so that we can help you more in depth. |
| 0:27.0 | So while you're listening right now, go over, hop on Patreon, it's P-A-T-R-E-O-N, and type in the Betray, the addicted, and the expert, and you'll find us there. |
| 0:37.8 | Or you can click on the show notes to the link over to Patreon, there's next level tools and resources there. |
| 0:44.0 | So we hope to see over there. Now let's get on with the show. |
| 0:48.0 | We are so glad that you're here because you're choosing to thrive after betrayal trauma or |
| 0:53.3 | addiction. Hi I'm Ashland the once betrayed. I'm Kobe the once addicted and I'm |
| 0:57.8 | Brandon the expert now why am I an expert because I've treated betrayal trauma |
| 1:02.0 | and addiction for over a decade. |
| 1:04.0 | Okay you guys we have somewhat of a different review this week but I think it's |
| 1:10.2 | awesome and important. It says any therapist that is willing to do on-air therapy is violating |
| 1:17.0 | multiple ethical codes and is worthy of a Dopple intervention. So the reason why I like this is it gives us opportunity |
| 1:26.2 | to address that. |
| 1:29.4 | So I just want to be clear that this isn't therapy. If you listen closely to the podcast, we talk about, we discuss topics and |
| 1:39.3 | Ashley and Kobe have their therapists that they go to. |
| 1:42.0 | Yeah, Brandon's not our therapist. I'm not their therapist that they go to. Yeah, Brandon's not our therapist. |
| 1:44.0 | I'm not their therapist. |
| 1:45.5 | And you know, I learn a lot from Ashton and Kobe |
| 1:48.5 | when we have these conversations. |
| 1:51.2 | And I'm not going deep with them and their issues and we're not working. |
| 1:56.6 | So we talk about their life, we talk about the things going on in your life, |
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