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Fierce Marriage

What if I married an unbeliever?

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.94.3K Ratings

🗓️ 26 April 2022

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

One of the toughest question we get: What if my spouse doesn't believe in Jesus? What can I do? Well, today we discuss just that. Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there! This ministry is entirely listener supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner

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0:00.0

I think we have a tendency to want to always change our spouse.

0:04.2

As much as we love them, there's always parts of them that we would like to change about them, right?

0:09.5

But no.

0:11.1

Good answer.

0:11.8

Dead wrong.

0:12.4

Good answer. Good answer.

0:15.5

So we get faced with this question a lot.

0:18.2

What if my spouse is an unbeliever, right? How can I make

0:23.4

them a believer? How can I change them? How can I save them? How can I, which I would stop you, friend, right there?

0:29.9

Well, how can I cope? Yes. How can I cope with this reality that I have this worldview that is completely...

0:35.5

It's a better question different different from their worldview.

0:39.0

And also I care about them. And how do I? It's so hard because you want to make it happen.

0:45.8

So we're talking about that today and we'll see you on the other side.

0:59.3

Yeah, I guess my heart really goes out to these wives, to these husbands who write in,

1:03.7

they call in or they leave a comment somewhere, and they'll just say,

1:05.2

what am I supposed to do?

1:06.6

I love Jesus.

1:07.8

I love my spouse.

1:09.4

They don't love Jesus.

1:13.5

And it's ripping us apart. at the very soul depths of us, we disagree on maybe who God is, if God even exists, who Christ is. If

1:23.2

Christ ever did what he said he did, what the Bible says he did. And it will rip them apart.

1:28.9

It feels as if it's ripping them apart. Now, I'm always also a little bit amazed at how these

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