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Fierce Marriage

What if I'm in a Sexless Marriage?

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 December 2024

⏱️ 31 minutes

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We're talking about the elephant in the bedroom... What kind of frequency should you have with your spouse in the bedroom?? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

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0:00.0

All right, Selena, it's time we talk about the elephant in the bedroom, if you will.

0:04.4

Okay.

0:04.8

Okay.

0:05.8

Now, what am I talking about?

0:07.4

Well, the elephant.

0:09.1

We started chatting about this in front of our kids and one of our five-year-olds, like,

0:12.3

do you have an elephant in the bedroom?

0:15.4

Yeah.

0:16.3

And we didn't explain anything to it.

0:17.7

We were just like, no, stop eavesdropping.

0:21.6

Yeah, so the idea of frequency around sex and intimacy.

0:27.2

And I think we call it the elephant in the bedroom because it's something that a lot of couples are really uncomfortable talking about.

0:34.3

And because it's not talked about, because it's not thought through, because what happens

0:39.3

is you have urges.

0:40.5

I'm not just talking like sexual urges, okay?

0:43.0

I'm talking like these, the impulses to, you know, want to be close to want sex.

0:49.1

But then there's also the reverse impulses that's to be kind of defensive.

0:53.2

Right, right.

0:54.2

And you don't usually get past the first or second tier of whatever those initial thoughts and thought processes are.

0:59.8

Yeah.

1:00.2

And so today we're going to address a question from listeners and talk about it, the elephant in the bedroom,

1:06.8

namely, what if you're in a sexless marriage or what if you just don't have any idea or any

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