Hi everybody, welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I'm going to share one helpful thought for you to help you make progress in dating.

Before we get into that, I want to share with you my free guide called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky.

And the link for that is going to be in the show notes. It's an eight-page guide with everything

you need to know from what to think to what to write and how

to handle those situations where somebody's acting flaky or you just feel like they're pulling

away within the early stages of dating. Also, if you have been interested in working together,

my coaching program from dating to exclusive is opening up again on Monday

the 27th. I'll be announcing it again through the podcast on Instagram and through email.

So you'll definitely get more reminders, but if you know that this is something that you've been

wanting to do, make sure to mark that date

on your calendar so you can secure your spot. Okay, so let's talk about a thought, which is,

what if what you want is already done? Like future you already created the result that you want,

and you're just figuring out how she did it.

That brings a whole different energy to our pursuit of goals. So just imagine yourself in the

relationship that you want to create, the kind of person that you're with, the quality of the connection that you two

have, and what it feels like to be there. What does it look like when this is done? And what if that

was an actual point in the future that you are heading towards.

And right now, you're just playing the game of figuring out how your future self evolved to create that in her life.

One thing that I have found with clients is very often when we get frustrated along the

process or we lose belief in the process.

And if we start to feel burnt out or tired by the process, it's usually because we are not

approaching our goals and our actions from the place of belief that we will create what we

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