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done for me lately? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm married to a 41-year-old bum that sits around all day doing nothing.

My husband retired from the military, and his goal is to be a house husband.

Our daughter is in her first year of college, so we're empty nesters.

My husband's retirement check is great, but he can be doing so much more.

His cousin has retired, too, and he has a lawn care business.

My uncle retired from the electric company.

He started a whole new career.

My husband does not understand that he's able-bodied, meaning he can do a lot of

things to generate extra income.

He is satisfied with what we have now and the little trips we take here and there.

I told him to think bigger and he can't.

Christmas is coming up and I'm tired of the tiny pieces of jewelry he gets me every year.

I would love to get our daughter a new car, but he always asked

what's wrong with the one she has now. He does keep the house clean and he will pick up dinner,

but that's it. Then he comes to bed expecting me to perform for him on demand after I've worked

all day. I told him I want the finer things in life at some point,

and he thinks I want us to live beyond our means.

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