What Happy Couples Know That You Don't

Conversations with John & Lisa Bevere

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🗓️ 16 September 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Every marriage has fights—but the real question is, are you fighting well? Marriage is hard for all kinds of reasons—financial struggles, parenting styles, personality differences, or difficult circumstances. It’s easy to drift apart, living more like roommates than partners. In this episode, John and Lisa talk with Gabe and Rebekah Lyons about their book The Fight for Us. They'll offer you biblical wisdom and practical tools to move from conflict to connection. Stop settling for survival—start pursuing the marriage you were made for. ___________________________________________ FREE Show Notes Here: https://page.church.tech/b4ebb671 ___________________________________________ Grab your copy of Gabe and Rebekah's new book, "The Fight for Us: Overcome What Divides to Build a Marriage That Thrives":Go to Rebekah's Website: https://www.rebekahlyons.com/fight-for-us-marriage-gabe-rebekah-lyonsor on Amazon: https://a.co/d/9jXmUBj ___________________________________________ Click here for more information on Thinq Media: https://thinqmedia.com/ ___________________________________________ Order premium meat now through Good Ranchers—use code “BEVERE" at checkout: https://go.goodranchers.com/bevere ___________________________________________ Our generous listeners who faithfully support this content monthly make Conversations with John and Lisa possible. Support this podcast by becoming a Patron here (tax-deductible): https://3szn.short.gy/FFF

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0:00.0	Men are stupid when you don't allow your wife's heart to manage the house.
0:06.6	We find in the church so much emphasis on submission of the wife and not the empowering of a husband to lead.
0:14.8	The husband's role is to cherish his wife. And if you're not cherishing your wife, your prayers will be hindered.
0:21.6	I've come to realize that God, he's a lot more involved than we think he is.
0:24.6	And he puts us with somebody who will bring the best out of us and also expose the stuff that needs to come out of us.
0:31.6	Every marriage will experience fighting. Like, that's not going to stop.
0:34.6	If we go to bed and there's unforgiveness or bitterness or seeds of resentment creeping in,
0:39.6	we do give the enemy a foothold.
0:43.3	Hey, everybody.
0:44.2	Welcome to Conversations.
0:45.7	I'm John Bevere, joined by my gorgeous wife, Lisa.
0:48.2	And Lisa, we have great friends on today.
0:51.0	People we love and admire.
0:53.0	And that is Gabe and Rebecca Lyons. And one of the things
0:56.5	I love about this couple is they have like three different ministries. Gabe, first of all, has the
1:01.7	think that is so powerful. And I'll let you elaborate a little bit on that. Rebecca is a national
1:08.0	bestselling author who I admire and respect for the way you administer so many. And Gabe is too. And you're a national bestselling author who I admire and respect for the way you have
1:11.4	ministers too. And you're a national bestselling author. And then they got this wonderful ministry
1:17.1	that they have together. So they're like three people in two. So guys, welcome to conversations.
1:23.5	Thank you for coming on. We love anytime we get the chance to talk with the two of you.
1:28.2	And we've been able to enjoy that over the last few years.
1:31.4	And we always come away just so encouraged because we are looking for couples that have
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