What happens when you stand up to a narcissist and tell them NO?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 2 November 2025
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Setting boundaries can be tough to do, especially when dealing with a narcissist or toxic person. SO, What happens when you stand up to a narcissist and tell them NO?
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| 0:00.0 | So what happens when you tell a narcissist no? When you use that two-letter word against that toxic narcissistic person, when you just look them directly in their face and say no. How would they react? What would they do? That's what we're covering today, y'all. Of course, if you knew here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a diagnosed narcissist. Here to give you the inside look at the mind of a narcissist. And let's hop right into it, y'all. Seriously. One of the main words, if not the main word, that narcissists hate the most is the word no. I think that most, if not all people, can agree upon that. I think that most, if not all people can agree upon that. I think that most, |
| 0:40.0 | if not all people can agree that narcissists hate hearing the word no. Because if you tell a |
| 0:46.5 | narcissist, no, most, if not all of narcissists will lose their damn minds. |
| 0:55.7 | Because narcissists hate to hear that word. |
| 0:58.2 | Like the word no is such a short word. |
| 1:01.1 | It's only two letters, right? |
| 1:02.7 | It's such a small word, but it's so powerful. |
| 1:06.6 | Because it carries to a narcissist, |
| 1:08.9 | it carries so much weight and so much shame with it, |
| 1:12.7 | that it can make them lose go crazy. |
| 1:16.1 | And if you've dealt with this type of person, if you've been dealing with this type of person, |
| 1:19.0 | you know exactly what I'm saying. |
| 1:20.4 | If you say no to them, they can lose it. |
| 1:26.2 | And a lot of y'all get it. |
| 1:27.1 | You get it. You're like, well, damn, Lee, you're right. I told my |
| 1:30.1 | partner no and he tried to take my life. Yeah. Some of these narcissistic people are crazy. |
| 1:36.2 | Let's be real. Some of them are absolutely crazy. Some of them will lose their minds. They will. |
| 1:42.0 | Because no makes them feel rejection. Because no makes them feel rejection because no makes them feel shame because no means |
| 1:49.4 | no more access because no means no contact you see what I'm saying like no means no power or |
| 1:56.8 | less power in this situation so whatever whatever the situation is, it can be something small. |
| 2:02.3 | There doesn't have to be some type of majorly huge situation when you're dealing with |
| 2:05.8 | this narcissists, right? |
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