What happens when you don't give a narcissist the REACTION THEY ARE LOOKING FOR
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 24 August 2024
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
Narcissists thrive off of getting you to react a certain way. So what happens when you dont give a narcissist the reaction they are looking for? A lot of them try to switch up their gameplan or what they have going on in the moment because you are going outside of what they actually expect from you.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people today? We're going to be talking about what happens when you don't give a narcissist the reaction that they might be looking for |
| 0:10.5 | If you knew here my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a self-aware narcissist and welcome to another episode of the narcissist code. What's going on folks? Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back. |
| 0:37.0 | Yes. Yes. Sometimes narcissists in types of people thrive off of your reactions. They love it, love when they get you to react a certain type of way to what they're doing to you. |
| 0:49.0 | Because a lot of problems, I'm just telling you, they thrive off of it, off of it. Before we hop deep into today's episode y'all please if you haven't already go |
| 0:57.6 | ahead and hit that subscribe button subscribe to the channel turn on no |
| 1:00.8 | notifications it helps us reach more people and the more people |
| 1:04.0 | we teach, the more people we help and whatnot. Like somebody likes and |
| 1:07.8 | subscribe to the channel and it reached you and it helped you. So you say |
| 1:10.9 | paying it forward, paying it for it. Pay it for it. But yes, narcissistic people |
| 1:16.2 | y'all absolutely love your reactions. Somebody like I said like I was saying |
| 1:20.8 | earlier, they get energy, they thrive off of getting you to |
| 1:25.0 | react for for what they do to you you know like if a narcissist this is one |
| 1:30.4 | example right here y'all let's just say a narcissist, right, |
| 1:33.3 | is fed up with you trying to hold them accountable. |
| 1:35.4 | You've caught them in a lie. |
| 1:36.8 | You caught them in a tizzy, so to speak. |
| 1:40.4 | Like you caught them cheating, hiding money, |
| 1:42.4 | they're smoking again, whatever they're doing. |
| 1:44.5 | So instead of just like being an adult and trying to handle the situation like an adult, |
| 1:50.0 | they threaten to leave you, they threaten to try to break up with you. They'll tell you something like, well if you don't want to deal with me, if you don't want to just drop it, I'm going to leave then. It's over. We're done for it. I'm breaking up with you right now. How about that? And then normally in this situation, they would expect you to be like, |
| 2:08.0 | no, don't break up with me, please don't break up. Okay, we will drop it, please, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you'll end up apologizing. You might start crying. You might be begging them not to leave. Like they got a, they got a book bag or trash bag right by the door, walking out the door. I got my trash bag packed. They'll be like, I got my trash bag packed. |
| 2:28.0 | You got anything you want to say before I leave? You're never going to see me again. |
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