What happened that made you go from stable relationship to, oh, I need a restraining order?

We were actually engaged to be married.

Then she went on holidays without me and came back pregnant.

She then told me, you've never done anything to prove you really love me,

accept this baby and help me raise it to prove it.

I declined and asked her to leave the home that I paid for

and that was in my name. She refused, so I made arrangements, cancelled my lease, then left and

told her there were four days left on the lease, I think. She wailed, but what am I supposed to do?

I don't have a job. After the constant mental beatdown from her, I started suffering from ED at 22 years of age.

Eventually, I mustered the courage to leave her.

She quickly moved on to someone else who had later become her husband, and called me

every week to basically rub it in, saying how much better he was than me, how much bigger he

was than me, all that stuff.

So I moved out of state, changed my number, never heard from her again. She called my parents

and even showed up at their home, but they told her to go away. About 10 years later, my friend

ran into an old friend of hers. Apparently she had been arrested for attacking her own mother,

got out of jail, attacked her husband,

tried to take her kids from him, was arrested again and later released. I guess I dodged a huge

bullet there. Mine cheated on me the day my dad died. He sliced himself in front of me and then

threatened to kill my cat. I was young, dumb, and thought that I was

in love and ignored many red flags. As he got more comfortable around me, he let his crazy out.

Someone stole his cell phone and he asked me to purchase a shoty for him so that he could go and

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