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Notes from America with Kai Wright

What Does the Right Kind of Woman Sound Like?

Notes from America with Kai Wright

WNYC Studios

News Commentary, Politics, History, News

4.41.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2018

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Shrill, strident, bossy. These are the misogynistic slurs women often face when they run for elected office. In this episode, we meet Rena Cook, a voice coach in Oklahoma who’s training progressive, female candidates on how to subvert our inbuilt biases about women’s voices. Plus, we look back on what the 1977 National Women’s Conference did (and didn’t) do for feminism. The United States of Anxiety is supported in part by the Economic Hardship Reporting Project. Additional support for WNYC’s election coverage is provided by Emerson Collective, The New York Community Trust, and New York Public Radio Trustee Dr. Mary White.

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0:00.0

Okay, ladies, spread out rather than be in a circle, just kind of creatively space yourself and face this direction.

0:09.0

Recently, in a side room of a theater in Oklahoma City, Rina Cook held a workshop for eight women running for office.

0:16.0

What I want to start us with is feeling grounded and centered.

0:20.0

We know that before we face a crowd or face the press, we want to be in our

0:26.6

most grounded and authentic place.

0:29.4

Cook is the voice coach for Sally's list. It's a nonprofit that supports progressive female

0:34.1

candidates in Oklahoma and her job is to help women up their public speaking game.

0:39.3

And soften your knees, bring your base in just a scosh, yeah, that's it. And think long back of neck, soft front of neck,

0:49.6

your chin is parallel. When we lift our chin, it makes our voice strident, and we don't want to get that

0:58.2

adjective, strident, bossy, aggressive, all of those.

1:02.4

Those adjectives. They are probably familiar to any woman who has stepped

1:06.8

into a leadership role. And to be clear, they're just sexist slurs meant to

1:11.3

undermine a woman's authority. But Farina Cook, that's beside the point.

1:16.4

Because these prejudices are getting in the way of political power. So she is trying to help women

1:22.3

subvert them.

1:23.0

Good.

1:24.0

Now we're going to add one more thing.

1:26.0

I'm Kywright.

1:27.0

This is the United States of Anxiety, Gender, Power, and the midterm elections.

1:30.0

And in this episode, reporter Jim O'Grady listens to our voices.

1:34.0

And he meets some women who are trying to break through our prejudice

1:38.0

about how power should sound. Here's the problem. When a man speaks loudly and emphatically, he's a take-charged guy.

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