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“What Does My Child Need?” :: Amy and Dr. Jeffrey Olrick [Ep 480] Summer of Mentorship Week 4

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Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Kids & Family, Leisure, Parenting, Education

52.3K Ratings

🗓️ 29 July 2024

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Do you feel like all the parenting books and formulas do not apply to your child? Is there embarrassment over public behavior that causes conflict? Are you longing for a deep connection with your kids that lasts into adulthood?

Today we revisit my conversation with Amy and Jeffrey Olrick. Jeffrey is a clinical psychologist who specializes in working with children and families and uses his knowledge in the science of healthy human development mixed with faith to help us in our family relationships.

They go through the six needs of every child and share a compass to help you find your way when it gets challenging. Jeffrey compares our walk through life to a long and challenging trek with our kids where we can get off course but can use these tools to get back on track and build deeper relationships with our kids. He came to the Lord through Matthew 11:28-30 which says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light”.

We can take this to heart in parenting and in life that God wants us to be in right relationship with our kids and He has strengthened us with the Holy Spirit to do that job well.

Connect with Amy and Jeffrey Olrick:

Summer of Mentorship Discussion Questions:

  • What stood out to you in this week’s episode?
  • Which of the 6 needs is the most hard for you to do with your kids? Why do you think that is the case?
  • Jeffrey talks about sanctification through parenting. Can you reflect on one way you have been sanctified (free from sin or purified) through parenting? Share that win with the group and celebrate how the Lord has changed your life.
  • What are some things in parenting you’ve been looking for a one-size-fits-all solution for?
  • Can you shift your question from “What should I do?” to “How can I be with this child?” That process may start by sitting with the Lord so you have the grace and patience to be with your child in hard spaces. Ask the Holy Spirit for the ability to know what each kid needs at each moment.
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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey all, welcome back to the Don't Mom Alone podcast.

0:14.0

I'm your host Heather McPagnan and this is the place

0:17.0

where I get to walk alongside you and connect you with people and resources

0:20.0

so you know that you don't mom alone and in this episode number 480 it is week

0:26.6

four of our summer of mentorship summer mentorship is where I dig into the

0:32.4

archives and this summer I'm answering your questions with previous conversations and I just felt like there were a lot of conversations on how to change behavior and kids.

0:45.0

And I remember this conversation with Jeffrey and Amy Ulrich

0:49.6

being super valuable because they flip that question of how do I change this behavior in my

0:57.0

child or how do I handle this challenging situation with the question, how shall I be with this person?

1:08.0

They have done a lot of work.

1:09.5

Jeffrey is a clinical psychologist and they've created this book six needs of every child.

1:16.1

They also have a podcast called Growing Connected and in this conversation we're talking

1:21.6

about a needs compass that they created based on attachment

1:26.8

theory.

1:27.6

You can find a picture of that compass in the show notes if it's helpful to look at it while you're listening. I hope that you

1:35.3

enjoy this conversation. I know it was good for me to go back and be reminded of

1:39.7

these things. So let's get right to it here we go.

1:45.0

Hey Jeffrey and Amy welcome to the

1:47.6

Don't Mom Alone podcast.

1:49.3

Oh thank you so much for having us we're thrilled to be here.

1:52.4

It is so exciting to be here thank you for having us. We're thrilled to be here. Thank you for having us.

1:54.4

And like we were just saying, if there are any technical glitches,

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