What Does It Take To Really Listen To Someone?
The Science of Happiness
PRX and Greater Good Science Center
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 30 January 2020
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
Are you actually listening when someone is talking to you, or just waiting for your turn to talk? Our guest, a veteran of the Iraq War, practices how to truly listen to others.
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| 0:00.0 | We all know that sitting for hours of screen time is bad, but can we fix it? |
| 0:05.0 | I think a lot of us don't realize how much pain we live in because of our interactions with computing. |
| 0:11.0 | Ultimately, it's a culture change. |
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| 0:19.4 | tech and our bodies. |
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| 0:25.0 | So for me, part of my PTSD was a little bit of like a survivor's guilt, a little |
| 0:31.8 | survivor's guilt, but also a lot of shame you know and so a lot of it I |
| 0:36.6 | wasn't too proud of and a lot of it carried with me I came to being a new father in |
| 0:41.7 | 09 when I came home to being a new father in 09 when I came home at that time. |
| 0:45.6 | Between the end of 09 and beginning 2010 is when my daughter was born. |
| 0:49.2 | And so seeing her really kind of brought a lot of that guilt, not feeling worthy of it. |
| 0:57.8 | So a lot of self-worth was in question. |
| 0:59.8 | Self-esteem was in question. |
| 1:02.2 | And so, yeah, I just didn't feel like I belonged |
| 1:05.8 | to where I was deserving. |
| 1:09.2 | I had to surrender myself. |
| 1:11.4 | And that was hard, because because again the mentality of you have to ask for help or |
| 1:17.8 | anything in that nature you seem vulnerable or you were weak so when I was going to see my social worker over in |
| 1:27.0 | Manila Park I finally told the truth and one of the best responses that she could have given me was, well, thank you for being honest. |
| 1:36.0 | And it was about time that you did. |
| 1:38.0 | She knew, but she wasn't going to say anything, and it was just me having to admit that. |
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