What Christian Men Are Looking For

For The Girl

Mac Bridges & Kenz Durham

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2026

⏱️ 48 minutes

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We are so excited about this one! With Valentine's Day just around the corner, we wanted to bring another episode of encouragement and insight to all our single ladies—and who better to hear from than two amazing single Christian men? We sat down with Jamey and Nikolai to talk all things dating, singleness, and what they're actually looking for in a godly woman. From bold dating stories to the struggles of Christian singleness, these guys brought the fun, the wisdom, and the honesty we LOVE. Whether you're feeling discouraged in the dating scene, wondering how to shoot your shot, or just curious where the good guys are hanging out—this episode is for YOU. Get ready for laughs, vulnerability, and a whole lot of truth about how to pursue Jesus and love in today’s world. In This Episode 01:50 – Most unpopular dating opinions 04:00 – Embarrassing stories & creative first dates 07:00 – What they’re actually looking for in a woman 10:30 – Living full lives while single 14:00 – Where they hope to meet someone 16:00 – The “why am I still single?” convo 18:00 – Can girls make the first move? 22:30 – What a great first date actually looks like 25:00 – Why these guys aren’t dating much right now 28:00 – The Christian girl + guy disconnect 30:40 – Things girls worry about that guys don’t 33:00 – Major turnoffs an icks 35:00 – Real struggles guys face in singleness 38:00 – Their “elevator pitch” to the single ladies Meet Jamey Instagram⁠ Meet Nikolai Instagram Delight Ministries Looking for a Delight Chapter near you? Check out⁠ Delightministries.com⁠ to find one. If there's not one near you, and you want to help start one, ⁠let us know⁠! We would love to talk. ⁠ORDER OUR NEW STUDY!⁠⁠ This seven-week, verse-by-verse study through the book of Acts invites you to embrace the unpredictable, sometimes challenging adventure of Spirit-led living that characterized the early church. Thanks to Our Sponsors ⁠⁠⁠⁠Winshape⁠⁠⁠⁠: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more or submit your application today⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Creatone: Visit tonetoday.com and use code FTGFAM to get 20% off! If you’d like to partner with For The Girl as a sponsor, fill out our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form! Follow us! 📸Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forthegirl___ https://www.instagram.com/macleighbridges/ https://www.instagram.com/kenzraedurham/ Subscribe! 🍏⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📹⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey everybody, welcome back to the For The Girl podcast.
0:10.8	We are so excited about today's episode.
0:13.2	My cheeks already hurt because I'm like smiling so much because this is just one of my favorite things.
0:18.5	We've got two incredible single men on the podcast today.
0:23.5	We've got Jamie.
0:25.3	Jamie, say what's up, say hi.
0:27.0	How y'all doing?
0:29.6	And then we've got Nikolai.
0:32.2	How's it going?
0:33.5	Hey.
0:34.6	And of course, Ken's is with us today.
0:37.1	And we're going to get to know these boys in a second. But the reason that we wanted to do this episode is because it's been a little bit of a minute, hot minute, since we've talked about dating and with Valentine's Day coming up. We just felt like we needed to be the big sisters and remind you guys that there are awesome single guys out there.
0:58.7	And we're going to just kind of pick their brains and see, hey, where are these guys hanging out?
1:03.5	What are they looking for?
1:05.3	What are they experiencing in the Christian dating scene these days?
1:09.9	All the sorts of things.
1:10.8	Kenz and I have some good questions prepared, and we're excited.
1:15.0	Okay, but maybe we could start up and just get to know you guys just a little bit.
1:19.8	So you can share, like, who you are, maybe like your job, if that peaks interest for any of our ladies listening.
1:29.2	And then you can maybe share your age where you live.
1:34.2	That's good, really important, so that once again, the ladies can reach out if they would
1:39.5	like.
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