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Am I the Genius?

What Behavior is DEAL-BREAKER in Someone Who was Otherwise THE PERFECT MATCH?

Am I the Genius?

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Education, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 3 October 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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0:00.0

What behavior is a deal breaker in someone who was otherwise the perfect match?

0:05.6

Ah, the need to always be the one who's correct.

0:09.8

Someone who's a bad guest at someone else's house.

0:13.6

Actually, tonight my girlfriend said, I love everything about you, but watching you eat unpeeled

0:17.8

Kiwis like their apples really freaks me out. So maybe that one,

0:22.1

we'll see. Went on a hiking date with someone who just littered. There was no second date. Don't litter,

0:28.5

folks. It's selfish and it ruins the trails for everyone else. Might say something about you as a person.

0:34.6

A girl who'd told me she'd been engaged six times. She was 29. Look, I know things happen,

0:40.9

but that's a lot of things. I really want to know what each of those things breaking points was.

0:46.6

I didn't press on at that point when she bought it up. I just remember it short-circuited my brain

0:51.2

looking for a response. I think I just went with a, oh, that's, um,

0:56.2

that's unfortunate. She was quite physically attractive, but that only goes so far.

1:02.6

I had an ex who constantly lied and omitted things. Usually not about anything huge, but she had a

1:08.5

habit of it and didn't seem to think it was wrong.

1:11.3

The longer we dated, the worse it got. Eventually, it really divided us because I couldn't trust

1:16.3

anything she said. From then on, if I discovered I was with someone who lied often as a tactic

1:21.1

to get what they wanted, or to avoid consequences and stuff, that was pretty much the end of

1:25.4

the relationship for me. I had a three-year relationship

1:28.0

with someone who lied about literally everything. It was a total mind screw because it took me a long

1:33.1

time to realize that he was lying all the time, about even tiny things. I left him because of this,

1:38.9

but it broke my heart because we'd had a fun life together. In time, I realized you can't be with

1:43.5

someone like that.

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