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Am I the Genius?

What are your BIGGEST Dating REGRETS?

Am I the Genius?

amithejerk.com

Education, Self-improvement

4.6764 Ratings

🗓️ 29 December 2023

⏱️ 21 minutes

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0:00.0

What are your dating regrets? Getting so caught up in the fun early stages of the relationship

0:05.3

and planning activities for dates that I forgot to just relax and be myself. Take it a week at a time

0:11.3

and see how things went. Pretty sure it made me seem too pushy, so things didn't end very well for me.

0:16.9

Lesson learned. Chill the F out. The Holy Trinity of bad dating. 1. Not listening when they told me they weren't interested.

0:23.6

2. Not listening when they told me they were crazy.

0:26.6

3. Not listening to myself when I realized I didn't want to be with someone anymore.

0:32.6

This is the first time I've ever spelled it out for myself like this and I think I'm seeing a pattern. Glad I admittedly hid some of my hobbies and interests because I were scared they looked dorky.

0:42.7

As soon as I stopped hiding it, I met my partner.

0:45.6

Don't be afraid to show your hobbies or your interest to your girlfriend, boyfriend,

0:49.2

significant other, whatever. Just, you know, if they like you, they like you for who you are.

0:53.6

And if they don't like you because of something as silly as a hobby or an interest, you know, if they like you, they like you for who you are, and if they don't

0:54.1

like you because of something as silly as a hobby or an interest that you have, then they don't

0:59.0

really like you. Not taking chances with various girls and women throughout my life when I

1:03.7

had the opportunities to. And I didn't try to date more in my early 20s, and now I'm in my

1:09.2

mid-30s with a combined relationship experience of a little

1:12.5

over a year. I basically have the romantic intelligence of a 16-year-old.

1:18.0

Shooting more shats and being way more confident in my 20s. I was a very good-looking guy with

1:23.2

very low self-esteem. Funny to look back at now I'm 46. So far, my biggest regret was moving

1:29.5

halfway across the country with someone, and when I was struggling to adjust to that location,

1:33.9

they refused to move a few hours for me to a different location. That really hurt. Felt like

1:38.7

I gave up so much for them, and it turns out they wouldn't do the same for me. I'll never move

1:43.4

for love again. Another thing

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