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West Elm Caleb

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Society & Culture

4.5611 Ratings

🗓️ 26 December 2022

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Caleb was a very bad boy. But did we have to John Tucker him x 1 million? Hannah and Maia get personal about life in the trenches of online dating, and whether or not doxxing is a justified means to a feminist end.

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Sources:

Camille Cobb and Tadayoshi Kohno, “How Public Is My Private Life? Privacy in Online Dating” Proceedings of the 26th International Conference on World Wide Web, (2017).

Katie Notopolous, “Caleb From West Elm Is Bad At Dating But Probably Didn't Deserve Being Pushed Through The TikTok Meat Grinder” Buzzfeed News (2022).

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/katienotopoulos/caleb-from-west-elm-meme

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Transcript

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0:00.0

How's it going, Hannah? It's okay. I just got off work as a brista.

0:07.1

As a brista. Now I'm ready to jump into the swing of this thing.

0:12.6

Hannah did literally streetcar here, get in the door, take off her jacket, and sat down, and now we are recording.

0:20.0

Oh, but that's just a podcaster's life for you. That's just

0:23.1

the podcast life. Maya, how are you? Me? Oh, I'm good. I just did a driving lesson because I'm a baby and

0:29.3

I've taken 10 years to start actually learning how to drive. And it was pretty fun. You and I both know

0:34.9

that I haven't even taken that first step yet. So you're crushing it as far as I'm concerned. Wow, thank you so much. How did your driving lesson go? It was good. My teacher is like constantly baffled at how spacey I can be. So, I might be a threat to the road. Is my teacher hot? Is your driving? No, I think I would be worse at driving if my teacher was hot. I would not be able to

0:54.9

deal with that. Absolutely. You were saying you have a hot GP, right? Like a hot doctor. Yeah, I don't love it. No. They just can't be hot. It's just, that doesn't work out like that. No, it's like, oh, you want to hear the most embarrassing things about me? Yeah. Great. All right. Well, jumping right on in, I'm Maya. I run a YouTube

1:14.5

channel called Broi de Chanel. I'm Hannah. I do research for Maya's YouTube channel. Hannah also helps

1:21.4

to run a film festival in Toronto called Insomniac Film Festival. That's true. Check us out, InsomniaFestival.com. Awesome.

1:30.0

We'll make your dreams come true. And this is Rehash, a podcast about the social media

1:35.1

phenomenons that strike a nerve in our culture, only to be quickly forgotten. But we think are due

1:39.9

for revisiting. This season is on the public theater, which is all about our collective fascination with a good public villain. Today, we're going to discuss the horror story that is

1:49.9

Wesalm Caleb. Yes. I'm naming here because she's very happily taken credit for this entire situation, posted a video on TikTok about the struggles of dating in New York City and a negative experience

2:38.7

she had had with a tall guy named Caleb who had recently ghosted her.

2:42.4

She then started getting a bunch of people in her comments being like, wait, is this the West Elm

2:46.9

Caleb?

2:47.9

It wasn't.

2:48.7

But looking into it further, she uncovered that this so-called West Elm Caleb

2:52.6

was a bit notorious in the New York dating scene, with a whole bunch of girlies sharing their stories with her, as well as on their own TikTok videos,

2:59.6

about how they had all dated this guy named Caleb, a six-four hinge haughty who worked as a designer for West Elm, which, can I say, is a pretty cool job.

3:08.3

The experiences these girlies had with Caleb followed a very similar pattern.

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