Welcome team. This is Connor Beedon here, The Man Talk Show. Happy Thursday. I hope you're all doing well, friends. I'm excited for this episode. I get this question a lot. This listener wrote in and asked me this question. And so this is just a really, really good one. So this is a message to the men why you, I'm going to explain why you generally tend to

wait until shit is really bad to fix things and why we as men tend to wait until it's

almost too late to take action in our life. So really to summarize,

why do we wait until rock bottom in order to make things better? I get this question a lot,

so I thought I would address it head on. So here's the question. Ten months after our biggest

crisis and in the 22 years of marriage, my husband is finally doing everything

I had been asking for for the past 10 years. Why now? Why after so much pain? Why after

infidelity? Why after being so close to divorce? Why after separating? Is he finally

stepping into this power? Why did he take so long? And after almost

burning everything to the ground and almost losing everything, I feel like I'm at my end.

Why doing it partially for me after what he did to me? I don't understand why the pain.

Okay. So here we go. This is what I get why the pain. Okay.

So here we go.

This is what I get all the time.

I have a lot of people reaching out asking me this very same question.

I get women reaching out saying, why do men do this?

And I get men reaching out saying, why can't I stop doing this? Why do I continue to self-destruct

and not seek help, not get support until the very last moment? There's a few reasons for this.

And, you know, one of, I'm in the process of writing a book and I've actually, I have a big section,

or a small section, I guess you could say, on this exact thing.

But I'm going to talk about it a little bit here and give a bit of a different context.

So there's a few reasons why we do this.

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