And now it's time for part two of in the moment.

And now it's time for in the moment's shoutouts.

You might feel a little hopeless and broken, but don't you quit.

Because I swear to God, you probably even closer than you think.

Alright, shout out to Kirk Franklin.

So Kirk Franklin said something about marriage and being single and not having kids and how they treat women in church and under Christianity and he feels like it's actually gotten to a point

where someone should say something about it and I actually agree.

I believe that marriage has been weaponized in Western Christianity.

Giving has been weaponized in Western Christianity.

Sexuality has been weaponized.

For example, any woman listening to this and sexuality has been weaponized.

For example, any woman listening to this

can attest in our culture.

Don't be no 30, 35 year old single black woman

and go to the family reunion.

All the older women are going to do them, they're going to look at you and wonder why you not matter.

Where are your man in?

Where your kids in?

Like, it's a prerequisite for identity and value, that if you don't have a man, if you don't have kids,

that something about you is broken.

Do you understand how dysfunctional these messages are

and how we super-spiritualize these messages. Paul said, but marriage is a

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