In this day and age, we've found a new way to break our own boundaries, disrespect our own

boundaries, and that is simply by over-explaining them. If you are listening to this episode

and you happen to be an over-explainer, you know exactly how defeating it is to feel like,

I have this boundary that I want to set, but gosh, it's just not setting the right way.

What am I doing wrong?

Well, I am going to tell you exactly why over-explaining is slowly washing away every hard line

that you make in the sand, all right?

And at the end of this episode, I'm going to give you some takeaway points some statements

that you can use to make sure that that doesn't happen again because your boundaries are statements

they are not things that are up for discussion big difference all that and more coming up

welcome to the jefferson fisher podcast where i'm on a mission to make your next conversation

the one that changes everything.

I have a short announcement, and that is something exciting for me. That is the next conversation

workbook is officially out for sale. You can find the links down in the show notes, short practical

exercises for arguing less and talking more. If you enjoy learning tips and getting into things like my book or the workbook

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