Big gifts, rapid trips right from the beginning? Huge wrap-lack.

That's why the recommendation is for people to take things slow because

manipulative people are not good at is actually honoring other people's boundaries

and they use love bombing as a way of luring people in.

Hi guys, I'm Belle Benson. Welcome to another episode of Two Charter Be Crazy on every Thursday

with me. Today my special guest is Mark Groves and I know I said his name last name correctly

because it's easy, they say right? Yeah, you did, you nailed it. You know if you mess up mine,

that's a tough one. Mark Groves is actually a human connection specialist who specializes in

public speaking and he specializes in helping companies and individuals unite with their most

authentic selves through his brand, create the love. Mark combines complex academic and research

to people's lives in a fun and relatable way to transform how we work, how we produce,

then how we relate to each other. Mark also has a self-titled podcast on Spotify that everyone should

check out and he is also obsessed with tacos. Hi, I love it, I love it, nailed it. Thank you.

You do a lot of things to help a lot of people but why don't we kind of get to know you, how did

you get into this? Were you always fascinated of wanting to connect with people or to connect people?

Do you mind telling me a little bit about yourself? Of course, thanks for having me on an

excited chat. I think with so many people, a lot of our work is sort of born from our wounds,

you know, and for me that was certainly true. I used to work in sales and was really interested

in how to change human behavior but more so from the perspective of how to manipulate human behavior.

I worked at like a best buy, I grew up in Canada and then worked as a pharmaceutical rep actually.

And so I used to study all of these things like how do you get someone to change what they choose

as a product, etc, etc. And then I had a relationship and when I was in my late 20s, I was 27.

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