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Blessed + Bossed Up

We don't supress, we submit

Blessed + Bossed Up

Anchored Media Network

Business, Education, Entrepreneurship, Self-improvement

4.62.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 August 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

In this powerful conclusion to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum shares what it's looked like to live in true peace while managing law school, motherhood, business, and ministry. Through personal testimony and Spirit-led insight, she unpacks the third psychological barrier to inner peace: emotional suppression.

Tatum explains how suppression—pushing down emotions like sadness, joy, fear, or anger—creates distance between us and the Holy Spirit, damages our bodies, and leads to emotional isolation. Drawing from biblical truth, she highlights how Jesus and David modeled emotional embodiment, reminding listeners that emotional honesty is not weakness—it’s worship.

This episode is a call to stop striving and start surrendering. You’ll walk away with biblical study tools, a mantra (“We don’t suppress, we submit”), and simple, life-changing practices that foster rhythm, not routine.

Inside this episode:

  • The difference between disembodiment and suppression
  • How suppression affects your business and leadership
  • Real-life strategies for walking in internal harmony
  • Biblical case studies from Psalms + the life of Jesus
  • Encouragement for Black women & high-achieving Christian entrepreneurs


Scripture focus includes John 11:35, Luke 22:44, Psalm 6, Psalm 51, and more.




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Transcript

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0:00.0

You are listening to Blessed and Bossed up, presented by Anchored Media, an entrepreneurship podcast for Christians all about how to make God the CEO of your business.

0:12.1

Get ready to be inspired, challenged, but well equipped to live and build your destiny his way.

0:31.4

Hey guys, welcome to another episode of the Blessed and Bostup podcast.

0:35.6

And welcome back to another installment of our Internal Harmony series.

0:40.3

If you are new here, I paused our Bible on business series that we've been doing for the last year in order to have this conversation around internal

0:44.9

harmony. I am one who has preached for years the importance of harmony over balance.

0:50.6

I don't like the word balance because I feel like when you are trying to pursue balance,

0:55.7

by definition, what you're trying to do is allow the weight to be distributed evenly because

1:02.8

that's a requirement for things to be balanced. But I believe that life, all of your

1:08.3

responsibilities, the hats that you wear do not hold the same weight and so

1:12.0

balance, in my opinion, is a meaningless pursuit. But instead, we need to pursue harmony.

1:17.2

How do I make all of the elements of my life, from motherhood to marriage, to business, to career,

1:24.4

to school, whatever the case may be for you. How do I make all of these different

1:29.1

aspects of my life flow together in a way where there is cohesion, where there's harmony,

1:36.6

where there's ease, where there's peace? That's always been a focus of mine for years now,

1:42.1

and I've discussed it often in my books as well as on this show.

1:45.9

More recently, as I was trying to be proactive about some transitions happening in my life,

1:52.1

I got back on this harmony conversation.

1:55.0

So I was in a place where I just had my daughter.

1:58.7

I was getting ready to start law school.

2:01.2

I was thinking a lot about what this transition is going to look like with three kids

2:07.3

and a heavy demanding schedule with school in addition to still having my businesses.

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